100cagefighter
Don Juan
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Ok, this isn't about being labeled a chump or anything. This is a question about how you would handle this same situation. Sorry this may be kind of long.
Here's the story, this happened over a 10 year period:
I went to high school (1993-1997)with this girl who I pursued in a very neophyte manner. She knew I liked her back then, but she had this boyfriend thoughout high school. She always claimed she would have went out with me if she was single, although I don't believe it. I have to say that this is the girl I always thought was for me.
One year after we graduated HS we ended up going to the same college together and lived in the same dorm my first year. She seemed like she was interested in being at least friends at the time, but I never made a move. After that first year of school I only saw her on occasion, which would be a hi, how are you doing type of thing. Then 3 years ago (2000) I was out with friends at a club and was pretty drunk, and I saw her, and apparently we had some mutual aquaintances. Upon leaving, I did a kind of stupid thing, and approached her. She was hugging me and holding my hands but stated that she was currently in a relationship and assured me that if things would ever work out, she would date me.
Now, just yesterday, I went back to my hometown (we both have graduated college), and went to a restaurant and ran into her. We talked a bit and I gave her my phone number and email address and told her to give me a call some time or write an email so we could become better friends, I told her my phone number would only be good for another week, though, because I started my own business and will be in Germany for the next 2 years (which we had talked about before I decided to give my phone number).
I don't know if this was the correct thing to do, but I put it out there because you never know what could happen. I don't really expect her to do anything, but I am curious, if any of you were in this situation, what would you have done?
Here's the story, this happened over a 10 year period:
I went to high school (1993-1997)with this girl who I pursued in a very neophyte manner. She knew I liked her back then, but she had this boyfriend thoughout high school. She always claimed she would have went out with me if she was single, although I don't believe it. I have to say that this is the girl I always thought was for me.
One year after we graduated HS we ended up going to the same college together and lived in the same dorm my first year. She seemed like she was interested in being at least friends at the time, but I never made a move. After that first year of school I only saw her on occasion, which would be a hi, how are you doing type of thing. Then 3 years ago (2000) I was out with friends at a club and was pretty drunk, and I saw her, and apparently we had some mutual aquaintances. Upon leaving, I did a kind of stupid thing, and approached her. She was hugging me and holding my hands but stated that she was currently in a relationship and assured me that if things would ever work out, she would date me.
Now, just yesterday, I went back to my hometown (we both have graduated college), and went to a restaurant and ran into her. We talked a bit and I gave her my phone number and email address and told her to give me a call some time or write an email so we could become better friends, I told her my phone number would only be good for another week, though, because I started my own business and will be in Germany for the next 2 years (which we had talked about before I decided to give my phone number).
I don't know if this was the correct thing to do, but I put it out there because you never know what could happen. I don't really expect her to do anything, but I am curious, if any of you were in this situation, what would you have done?