"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How would you have handled this situation?

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The library is close to my house, so I was walking home from it when this happened. A group of 5 cute girls called me up. We started talking and I played it cool, kept my answers short and vague. They asked me things like "Do you like me?" and I said "maybe", "sure" stuff like that. Then they all asked me for a hug, so I did that. I didn't number-close or anything, but that's okay since they live right across the block from me. (One lives across my house). When I was leaving, one of them came up to me and asked me if I would go out with her friend, one of the girls. So I said "yeah" and continued on. What would you've done in all of these situations? Did I handle this the right way?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I would have done some C&F and playful thigns, like maybe when she asked

Hb: Do you like me?
Me: Of course, your my new gf
*Put arm around her*
Me:But wait can you dance? (Say it to her)
*Look at her friend's*
Me:Can she dance? (If her friend's says yes I would assume that there aren't any obstacles so then I would try to isolate)
Me: Ok my new gf is going to walk me too...(wherever) now your isolated and can run regular game

They way you sounded, made it seem like the interaction was boring, as for the hug parts you could have throw in another line "O you guys are all taking advantage of me like if i'm alittle care bear."

This is also assuming that she is attracted to you, as it could have just been a sh!t test.
 
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You're a cool guy, shame you got banned.
 
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