The library is close to my house, so I was walking home from it when this happened. A group of 5 cute girls called me up. We started talking and I played it cool, kept my answers short and vague. They asked me things like "Do you like me?" and I said "maybe", "sure" stuff like that. Then they all asked me for a hug, so I did that. I didn't number-close or anything, but that's okay since they live right across the block from me. (One lives across my house). When I was leaving, one of them came up to me and asked me if I would go out with her friend, one of the girls. So I said "yeah" and continued on. What would you've done in all of these situations? Did I handle this the right way?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How would you have handled this situation?
- Thread starter Arsinel
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