How would you handle this?

[Nemuro]

Partly out of innocent curiosity, partly of selfish interest, I would like to know your oppinion on the following story a friend just told me:

We are living in a mixed student's university residence. It seems there is a girl that is very touchy, and does stuff such as asking guys to tickle her, sitting next to them and resting her head on their shoulders, etc...

She had become quite friendly with my friend, and he had most of her attention. They even slept on the same bed a couple of times.
At one point, she lied down on his bed, next to him, with her lips barely two centimeters next to his. My friend made a move and tried to kiss her, but she dodged his lips. Then she lied right next to him again. He tried kissing her a couple more times, but she kept moving out.

After a while he asked her what was the matter, and she said he was being too easy. She added that she really enjoys "playing" with him. He got quite pissed and hasen't talked to her since.


So, what do you think? Was she even interested on him, or is she just a ****-teasing attention ***** and he never had a chance? It seems one would have to frustrate her and not give her much attention, or none at all, in order to get in her panties.

Nemuro

 

[Cremasta]

Originally posted by Nemuro
At one point, she lied down on his bed, next to him, with her lips barely two centimeters next to his. My friend made a move and tried to kiss her, but she dodged his lips. Then she lied right next to him again. He tried kissing her a couple more times, but she kept moving out

Two centimetres and he missed three times??? He really needs to work on his speed! Maybe learn to throw a feint in or something...

 

[Austin Allegro]

There is a thread or a bible passage about this.

Also, I remember reading some history which said that this is quite a new idea for women. Up until about the seventies, most women would not DREAM of sleeping in the same bed as a man unless they were prepared to have sex, because it was felt that men 'couldn't help themselves' and that it was very possible rape would occur. At many girls' colleges they even made the women put their beds out in the corridor if a male friend visited.

Now feminist dogma insists that 'no means no' and that women should be allowed to do anything, go anywhere with a man and insist that nothing happens unless she wants it to.

I agree with this to a certain extent but NOT when it comes to sleeping in the same bed, which is far too heavily loaded with sexual overtones. You might as well ask someone to take a shower with you (but only if you keep your clothes on!)

Basically a DJ does not sleep in the same bed with a woman and not AT THE VERY LEAST kiss her/make out with her.

It is a shyt test - she is making an AFC of him by saying 'You are so lame and emasculated that I trust you enough to sleep in the same bed without you even kissing me'.

Add to that she admitted she was just 'playing with him' and you are in one hell of an AFC situation.

That's my opinion. Don't do it.

 

[bp1974]

Immature, stupid little girl.

 

[Big Pappy]

I would suggest this friend of yours find a new residence.

 

[DJ_Dork]

*COUGH* Attention Wh*re *COUGH*