so last night i saw a hb10. with out hesitation i walked up to her and started conversation. i kept it light and said we should get together sometime. she said sure give me your name and number. first i thought this was a total blowoff but last night i got a freind request from her on face book. THis girl is bad!!!!! she goes to college about an hour away and is leaving this weekend. what do you suppose i do to get in with this girl. I have other plates but i would really like to get to know this one.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
how would you handle this?
- Thread starter kiddenvy
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
Keep spinning.
Did you get her number?
Did you get her number?
ya, i got it. we talked for a few today. She was telling me that she was leaving this weekend to go back to school and told me that i should come up and party with her. I then asked her if she ever comes back home and she replied "occasionally". then i said not even for this cute face and she said maybe we will see 
. finally i said sounds sweet, thumps down lol j/k. and that was the last i heard from her. I posted on her fb wall" have a good time with your girl tonight and thanks for getting mad and not returning my text lol j/k". she replied back thanks and she was sorry she left her phone in her room and was chillin with her friend" so goes the rest of the story.
. finally i said sounds sweet, thumps down lol j/k. and that was the last i heard from her. I posted on her fb wall" have a good time with your girl tonight and thanks for getting mad and not returning my text lol j/k". she replied back thanks and she was sorry she left her phone in her room and was chillin with her friend" so goes the rest of the story.falconslax89
Senior Don Juan
the facebook message was unnecessarykiddenvy said:ya, i got it. we talked for a few today. She was telling me that she was leaving this weekend to go back to school and told me that i should come up and party with her. I then asked her if she ever comes back home and she replied "occasionally". then i said not even for this cute face and she said maybe we will see
sounds like you did well, i agree with Kailex, just see how this goes, she sounds fairly interested. you did well to not get rejected straight away because from where i come from girls dont really meet strangers that approach them, unless its at a bar or club
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
none of this is actual advice. does anyone have something good to contribute? Im just watching the days go by with not a clue what to do. communication has fallen off the map. i dont wanna boot her yet as i thing shes packing and spending alot of time with her friends thats in from out of town.
none of this is actual advice. does anyone have something good to contribute? Im just watching the days go by with not a clue what to do. communication has fallen off the map. i dont wanna boot her yet as i thing shes packing and spending alot of time with her friends thats in from out of town.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
Noooooooooooooo to the FB message, SPECIALLY on her wall. :cuss: