"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how would you handle this?

kiddenvy

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so last night i saw a hb10. with out hesitation i walked up to her and started conversation. i kept it light and said we should get together sometime. she said sure give me your name and number. first i thought this was a total blowoff but last night i got a freind request from her on face book. THis girl is bad!!!!! she goes to college about an hour away and is leaving this weekend. what do you suppose i do to get in with this girl. I have other plates but i would really like to get to know this one.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kailex

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Keep spinning.
Did you get her number?
 

kiddenvy

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ya, i got it. we talked for a few today. She was telling me that she was leaving this weekend to go back to school and told me that i should come up and party with her. I then asked her if she ever comes back home and she replied "occasionally". then i said not even for this cute face and she said maybe we will see :). finally i said sounds sweet, thumps down lol j/k. and that was the last i heard from her. I posted on her fb wall" have a good time with your girl tonight and thanks for getting mad and not returning my text lol j/k". she replied back thanks and she was sorry she left her phone in her room and was chillin with her friend" so goes the rest of the story.
 

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kiddenvy said:
ya, i got it. we talked for a few today. She was telling me that she was leaving this weekend to go back to school and told me that i should come up and party with her. I then asked her if she ever comes back home and she replied "occasionally". then i said not even for this cute face and she said maybe we will see :). finally i said sounds sweet, thumps down lol j/k. and that was the last i heard from her. I posted on her fb wall" have a good time with your girl tonight and thanks for getting mad and not returning my text lol j/k". she replied back thanks and she was sorry she left her phone in her room and was chillin with her friend" so goes the rest of the story.
the facebook message was unnecessary
 

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sounds like you did well, i agree with Kailex, just see how this goes, she sounds fairly interested. you did well to not get rejected straight away because from where i come from girls dont really meet strangers that approach them, unless its at a bar or club
 

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kiddenvy

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none of this is actual advice. does anyone have something good to contribute? Im just watching the days go by with not a clue what to do. communication has fallen off the map. i dont wanna boot her yet as i thing shes packing and spending alot of time with her friends thats in from out of town.
 

kiddenvy

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none of this is actual advice. does anyone have something good to contribute? Im just watching the days go by with not a clue what to do. communication has fallen off the map. i dont wanna boot her yet as i thing shes packing and spending alot of time with her friends thats in from out of town.
 

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Noooooooooooooo to the FB message, SPECIALLY on her wall. :cuss:
 
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