"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How would you handle this situation?

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So I was just watching the Wolf of Wall Street and this scene came up in the film: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gb1HrBCVOCU

I just wondered how you guys would handle this situation? If a guy is clearly showing interest in a girl you're with (like DiCaprio is here), what would you do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The guy handled it ok. Dicaprio is using things like the size of the house and jetski to get attraction.
 
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If your woman openly argues against you, like that blonde did with her guy there when he said "lets go" and she said "no lets stay for drinks", that is cause for you to walk away alone.

You can think of it with a beta mentality "awwww man Dicaprio won", or you can think of it with an alpha mentality "wow, this btch just dissed me, ditch her and move on"

That guy got emotional and lost control of himself, coupled with Dicaprio looking good and making a solid play. The woman psychologically left him right there.
 
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