"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how would you guys response?

cali0

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How would you guy response to each situation. Sometimes I don't know what to say and the conversation would fade away. I'm a newbie, flame suit on. LOL

her: have i seen you some where before?
me: yea....
her: where?!
me: <~~~how would you guy response?


her: f**K me!!!
me: im busy tonight, let do it tommrow!
her: you wish!
me: ?????
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Darth_Qurashi

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well, um, in the first question, i would reply by saying where i saw her before.or say something random, like, starwars convention, i dono, some random tv show or say u were on the 6 o clock news last week cuz something random hapend. lol im just brainstorming, i've never tried them, u should try them though just for fun, trial and error my friend. thats the funnest way to learn.

the 2nd, i would prbly just stare at her for a while with a confused look on my face. thers like ten different phrases im thinking of rite now, but all i can say to u is be creative, and just be urself, how do u rly feel, just express it. like me personaly, i dono about the context, but im getting an awkward silence vibe comin out, so i would just act like it was her fault for saying something awkard.

then again i am a newbie just like u hehe, its only recently that i've been conformable in conversations, but i still mess up a lot.
 

xdreamz

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#1 ..in your deepest dreams...

lol i dono a guess on wherever u might have met her possibly...


#2 thats a little wierd. i thought hormones were 24/7....

or
alirhgt then, maybe today, if u play it cool...
 

HarlequinMan

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ya turn #2 around on her

after she says "you wish"
respond with something that would say she wants you like:
"slow down tiger we just met!" or "maybe if your lucky"
 
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