"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How would you get a girl's number off of myspace...

Jakeman

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who was a girl you knew in elementary school and just found over myspace (We're seniors now)?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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guayaballer

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been a long time we should meet up one of these days. whats your phone #
 

Nethel

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<stalkermode>
Use Facebook, everyone puts up their numbers!
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The Shocker

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ummmmmm...ask for it, maybe?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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limerick

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msg her, build rapport and comfort, random funny comments(can be ****y), and then say "chatting with u has been fun, now we have to get together sometime. give me your number and when I'm free I'll give u a call and we can catch up a little more."
 

DR Chillz

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I dont want to come off like a *******, most people make at least one stupid thread at one forum or another... But these realy need to stop.

DR Chillz can remane cool in any situation...
 
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