“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

how would you diffuse this 'obstacle' in this situation?

Chilli_pimp

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2004
Messages
36
Reaction score
0
last night, after hitting up a local pub, my buddy and i decided to goto a coffee shop to shoot the breeze and talk about our night of sarging...got 2 numbers last night =)

its about 2am, hardly anyones around and we were in front of starbucks talking...just then, a black benz droveup and parked right where we were standing...the passenger, and hb8, stepped out of the car, while the driver hb8.5 stayed in her car.

hb8 walked passed us and walked in to starbcuks. i looked at my buddy and said, "3 times a charm." not in those exact corny words, but you get point.

so anyway, i had my back turned to the entrance of starbucks telling my buddy to signal me when the hb8 walks out, so i can approach...i glanced over to the benz and noticed hb8.5 was putting on makeup.

hb8 walked out with her coffee and i turned and approached...

CP: "excuse me..."

HB8 "Yes?"

CP: "i dont want to seem to look like those type of guys who pick up girls randomly in front of coffee shops....but i guess im that guy."

HB8: (she giggles) "okay..."

CP: "what's your name?"

i took her hand and she told me her name...which i forgot. anyway, i asked her where they were coming from, where they were going now...after a minute of fluffing, her friend in the car beeped her horn...but i can tell hb8 didn't want to leave, she was staying put. then her friend literally blasted her horn, "BEEEEEEEEEEEP, BEEEEP, BEEEEEEEEEEP!".

i can tell hb8 was embarrased (heck i was embarrased too), so she started to walk towards the car. i was like, "What's wrong with your friend?"
my buddy, quickly went to the driver side of the car and tried to neg her...but they she drove off, with tires screeching!

anyway, what would you guys have done to take control of the situation?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

DJDamage

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2004
Messages
5,657
Reaction score
104
Location
Canada
Chilli_pimp said:
anyway, what would you guys have done to take control of the situation?
Nothing.

Situations are not meant to be controlled. You just caught her on a bad timing heading into a car with a c0ckblocking friend. Targets on the move are on the move for a reason, they are going places. You could have followed her into to the coffee shop and started a conversation right there and then while she wasn't moving and bought yourself the extra 5 mins you needed to seal the deal and get her number.
 
Top