"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How would you describe "The One"

Zeus

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Hey there. I just have a simple question.

How would you describe a girl thats eveything you are looking for. Pure and simple, "The one"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gregory

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truthfully, after finding sosuave, i will never fall in love, maybe just infatuation, but that's it. i will never obsess over a girl like i did with my first. but even if i could have her back, which i probably could, i dont want her anymore cuz i know she a trick.
 

DJUofS

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Originally posted by gregory
truthfully, after finding sosuave, i will never fall in love, maybe just infatuation, but that's it. i will never obsess over a girl like i did with my first. but even if i could have her back, which i probably could, i dont want her anymore cuz i know she a trick.
Love and obsession aren't one in the same.

I usually laugh when I hear people say they can't fall in love because of this site. Chances are, if your saying this, you have never been in love to begin with. So, you have no idea what it is.
 

gav

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how would i describe "the one". illusory.
 
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