"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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First of all, I'd like to say that this thread has never made me happier to know that I'm not in high school anymore. :down:

Second of all, it was a good question. "How do I get rid of a bully?". Not only do bully's mess up your game with women, but they can make your time in high school a living hell.

Third of all, why aren't you guys giving this kid some advice?! That's what this forum is for. Guys helping guys improve their game. And this part of the forum in particular is for helping younger guys like yourselves mature into men. Maybe he is the class geek. If you plan to be a regular poster around here, it's your responsibility to give him some advice so that he ISN'T the class geek.

Besides, maybe he knows something you don't. And when the time comes that you find yourself in the position where you could use his advice... Why should he give it to you?

Stop the flaming before I send you all to your corners. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good luck trying to send me into "the corner". Just continue to watch his posts, you'll notice a pattern.
 

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Originally posted by thederekeffect1
First of all, I'd like to say that this thread has never made me happier to know that I'm not in high school anymore. :down:

Second of all, it was a good question. "How do I get rid of a bully?". Not only do bully's mess up your game with women, but they can make your time in high school a living hell.

Third of all, why aren't you guys giving this kid some advice?! That's what this forum is for. Guys helping guys improve their game. And this part of the forum in particular is for helping younger guys like yourselves mature into men. Maybe he is the class geek. If you plan to be a regular poster around here, it's your responsibility to give him some advice so that he ISN'T the class geek.

Besides, maybe he knows something you don't. And when the time comes that you find yourself in the position where you could use his advice... Why should he give it to you?

Stop the flaming before I send you all to your corners. :)
Ok mr preacher man, listen here, this kid doesnt take the advice hes given. This has been going on WAY too long. He complains and criticizes when hes giving good advice. What should we do about that huh? He doesnt know a damn thing that i dont, because im actually willing to listen to what people have to say. Read his old post and youll understand...next time, dont run into battle with a pencil when you think you got a gun. READ HIS OLD POST! Now i think you should go stand in a corner and think about what youve said.:down:
 

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Originally posted by thederekeffect1
First of all, I'd like to say that this thread has never made me happier to know that I'm not in high school anymore. :down:

Second of all, it was a good question. "How do I get rid of a bully?". Not only do bully's mess up your game with women, but they can make your time in high school a living hell.

Third of all, why aren't you guys giving this kid some advice?! That's what this forum is for. Guys helping guys improve their game. And this part of the forum in particular is for helping younger guys like yourselves mature into men. Maybe he is the class geek. If you plan to be a regular poster around here, it's your responsibility to give him some advice so that he ISN'T the class geek.

Besides, maybe he knows something you don't. And when the time comes that you find yourself in the position where you could use his advice... Why should he give it to you?

Stop the flaming before I send you all to your corners. :)
If you haven't heard this guy before. He is annoying and if you offer him advice he replies with some dumbass remark. I don't offer advice to people who wont take it. He is a 15 year old prepubesent *****.
 

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If you haven't heard this guy before. He is annoying and if you offer him advice he replies with some dumbass remark. I don't offer advice to people who wont take it. He is a 15 year old prepubesent *****.
Wow, there buddy, so you want to talk huh? Well, I can say that you don't give the best advice either, because if you did, maybe I would actually take it. Plus prepubescent 15 year old? Hah, do you f*cking read your own post man? I don't think you do. Learn how to spell the world before you flame me, then learn how to use them correctly, the fact that I'm younger than you and can spell better, says something. I make dumb post? Most of the dumb post here are made by you and Oakraiderz.
Ok mr preacher man, listen here, this kid doesnt take the advice hes given. This has been going on WAY too long. He complains and criticizes when hes giving good advice. What should we do about that huh? He doesnt know a damn thing that i dont, because im actually willing to listen to what people have to say. Read his old post and youll understand...next time, dont run into battle with a pencil when you think you got a gun. READ HIS OLD POST! Now i think you should go stand in a corner and think about what youve said
Maybe you should start learning that not everyone will listen to what YOU in particular say, because maybe YOUR advice doesn't always work on them. Like a Plasma Membrane, I choose what to take and what to not take. Plus this isn't the same situation as before, so stop comparing it to my old topics.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oh My God. I can see why people bully you.
 

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Oh My God. I can see why people bully you.
Yeah and I can see why your such a jackass, you like to create problems, rather than solve them, because you know how I will react.
Now, either say something useful or GET OUT, if you're not going to post advice, then I don't really much give sh*t about what you have to say.
 

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Eh. You guys are right. I don't read a lot of his posts, and I have no idea what he's like other than this thread. But I'm not about to start arguing with anyone, and I'm not going to get involved. Just trying to help calm the situation down a little. Go back to doing whatever the hell you were doing.
 

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Originally posted by Viper

2. Well of course I can't stop him from dissing me, I can't control his god damn mouth.

3. I take EVERYTHING seriously, deal with it.

2. you can control his fùckin mouth... if you become wittier than him, he'll probably stop dissin' you. there are lots of posts about AMOGging... your focus when reading them shouldn't be becoming the alpha male, but lowering the other guy's status when he disses you

3. then you will never get out of your situation, deal with it.



beside this, why do you think that everybody in this forum says you're a geek? because of your name, of your height, of your eyes, of your hair? no, we don't even see you, man.

but EVERYBODY in this forum and in the real world seems to be rude with you... why? think about it for a moment...
 

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Wow, there buddy, so you want to talk huh? Well, I can say that you don't give the best advice either, because if you did, maybe I would actually take it. Plus prepubescent 15 year old? Hah, do you f*cking read your own post man? I don't think you do. Learn how to spell the world before you flame me, then learn how to use them correctly, the fact that I'm younger than you and can spell better, says something. I make dumb post? Most of the dumb post here are made by you and Oakraiderz.
How can you criticize advice that you have not taken? or studied?

Distinguishing good advice from the bad takes "skills", you have no skills when it comes to this.

It would be like saying, "I don't like pie; I haven't seen a pie before, but I don't like pie anyways."

You ask questions, we give advice, and you criticize the advice (as if you know what you're doing), but obviously, you have no CLUE as to what you're doing.

Maybe you should start learning that not everyone will listen to what YOU in particular say, because maybe YOUR advice doesn't always work on them. Like a Plasma Membrane, I choose what to take and what to not take. Plus this isn't the same situation as before, so stop comparing it to my old topics.
What a contradiction to say the least. At least, if you decide to make a valid argument, be sure to stay on ONE SIDE :crackup:.

At first you accused someones' advice as, "[not worthy of being taken]", and now you say, "not every one will listen to you in particular". Which one is it, are you trying to be "selective" or are you just not paying attention? or is it both? I think it's both. It's obvious, you aren't aware of anything on this board. You aren't aware of how attraction works, you don't know how to make people like you, you don't know how to handle people who diss you, etc.

You come on here and you b!tch, moan and groan about "how your life sucks", "people don't like me", "girls laugh at me", " I'm tired of this and that", "how do I solve this", and it goes on and on to no end!

If you can declare the right as to be "super selective" as you are about the advice that you "don't take" (which is everyones). This also means that you have the right to leave and learn by yourself. I mean, everyone hates it when you post because you ask the same stupid questions, over, and over and over again.

You just don't get it do you? you have NO friends. And the way you post on here is proof of it. I'm sure if you did these same annoying things to "them", they'd leave you in the dust, in a heart beat, before you could blink twice.

Stop being an ass and listen. If you can't listen to us, you got to go, dude. Right now, you look like the biggest loser ever. :crackup:
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Viper
Wow, there buddy, so you want to talk huh? Well, I can say that you don't give the best advice either, because if you did, maybe I would actually take it. Plus prepubescent 15 year old? Hah, do you f*cking read your own post man? I don't think you do. Learn how to spell the world before you flame me, then learn how to use them correctly, the fact that I'm younger than you and can spell better, says something. I make dumb post? Most of the dumb post here are made by you and Oakraiderz.
Hey, If your lost there is a middle school forum here.
 

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Yeah and I can see why your such a jackass, you like to create problems, rather than solve them, because you know how I will react.
Now, either say something useful or GET OUT, if you're not going to post advice, then I don't really much give sh*t about what you have to say.
its no wonder why nobodys giving you advice,
your cursing everybody out. Im shure that makes
them want to help you
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think we should make a VIPER boot camp, just for him
:cheer::cheer:

Originally posted by Viper
Wow, there buddy, so you want to talk huh? Well, I can say that you don't give the best advice either, because if you did, maybe I would actually take it. Plus prepubescent 15 year old? Hah, do you f*cking read your own post man? I don't think you do. Learn how to spell the world before you flame me, then learn how to use them correctly, the fact that I'm younger than you and can spell better, says something. I make dumb post? Most of the dumb post here are made by you and Oakraiderz.

Maybe you should start learning that not everyone will listen to what YOU in particular say, because maybe YOUR advice doesn't always work on them. Like a Plasma Membrane, I choose what to take and what to not take. Plus this isn't the same situation as before, so stop comparing it to my old topics.
Youre right, i make the stupid post.:rolleyes:...forgot about those. Why are you such an *******? Are you rich, handsome, successful? Do you have a reason to be such a prick? Last time i checked you sounded like alvin and the chimpmunks. SO i suggest you try something that WE say since YOURE the one who is merely with the air you breathe. Sorry i dont wanna f-uc-kin sugar coat everything for you and hold your goddamn hand. Grow the f-u-c-k up, honestly. Im trying to help you because I KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT. What about that dont you understand? Ok Mr...no wait...Ms Plasma Membrane, take what advice you want, youre still a loser and will be one till the world ends. Sorry i have to be a complete ass about this, but you need to straighten the hell up. Say what you want back, but at the end of my day i know i can get what i want and im successful...cant say the same about you...poosay b-i-tch
 

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:cheer::cheer:



Youre right, i make the stupid post.:rolleyes:...forgot about those. Why are you such an *******? Are you rich, handsome, successful? Do you have a reason to be such a prick? Last time i checked you sounded like alvin and the chimpmunks. SO i suggest you try something that WE say since YOURE the one who is merely with the air you breathe. Sorry i dont wanna f-uc-kin sugar coat everything for you and hold your goddamn hand. Grow the f-u-c-k up, honestly. Im trying to help you because I KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT. What about that dont you understand? Ok Mr...no wait...Ms Plasma Membrane, take what advice you want, youre still a loser and will be one till the world ends. Sorry i have to be a complete ass about this, but you need to straighten the hell up. Say what you want back, but at the end of my day i know i can get what i want and im successful...cant say the same about you...poosay b-i-tch
Like I said, fool, I decide which advice I take and I don't take, you've simply got to accept the fact that you're advice doesn't work for everyone. Admit it, you wouldn't give a damn whether or not I took someone elses advice, you're just crying like a preschool girl because I'm not taking every single bit of YOU'RE advice, so shut the f*ck up about the I don't take advice sh*t.You know what you're talking about? No, you dont, you maybe be successful with girls, blah, blah, blah, but you've probably never been in the situation of the topic, so why are you even giving advice when you're inexperienced. Hah, I see you're trying to be funny oak, but there's a good chance you don't even know what the f*ck a plasma membrane is. Plus, I'm going to be a loser for life, huh? Who are you the f*cking psychic? If anything, in the end, I'll be a lot more successful than you. Now, unless you've really been in this situation, GET THE F*CK OUT.
 
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Viper this is the point where you just stop talking forever. Just see how it works. I believe there is a bottom of a cliff with your name on it.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Like I said, fool, I decide which advice I take and I don't take, you've simply got to accept the fact that you're advice doesn't work for everyone. Admit it, you wouldn't give a damn whether or not I took someone elses advice, you're just crying like a preschool girl because I'm not taking every single bit of YOU'RE advice, so shut the f*ck up about the I don't take advice sh*t.You know what you're talking about? No, you dont, you maybe be successful with girls, blah, blah, blah, but you've probably never been in the situation of the topic, so why are you even giving advice when you're inexperienced. Hah, I see you're trying to be funny oak, but there's a good chance you don't even know what the f*ck a plasma membrane is. Plus, I'm going to be a loser for life, huh? Who are you the f*cking psychic? If anything, in the end, I'll be a lot more successful than you. Now, unless you've really been in this situation, GET THE F*CK OUT.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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