"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How would you deal with this bar scenario?

danthemann

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Well lately ive been hitting the bars more frequently and i cant stop running into people, more specifically the girls, that i went to school with growing up. And these arent just any chicks, i like to consider them the anti-christ. They literally made my world a living nightmare as a kid, because they were hot and i was just some clueless and innocent boy who still had growing up to do.

Now that im older, almost finished college, not so clueless or innocent and actually turned out to be pretty good looking, i notice these girls have some sort of interest in me. I mean i catch these girls glaring at me across the bar and pretty much begging for my attention or for me to come up and strike some sort of conversation about how times have surely changed but i cant help but feel some sort of reservation, like a grudge almost.

anyways, part of me would like to just keep avoiding them and going on with my life, but my better, more curious side would like to end this grudge, screw them all, and feel like all those years of torment were finally paid for. so how would you go about achieving this goal?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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VladPatton

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Game em and bang em. You may even end up with one of them. Holding a grudge does nothing but may you bitter.
 

Uncharted

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Treat them the same way as any other chick you want to game, except you have an advantage because you're not a total stranger. Who cares about your past concentrate on the present.
 
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