"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How would you deal with this bar scenario?

danthemann

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Well lately ive been hitting the bars more frequently and i cant stop running into people, more specifically the girls, that i went to school with growing up. And these arent just any chicks, i like to consider them the anti-christ. They literally made my world a living nightmare as a kid, because they were hot and i was just some clueless and innocent boy who still had growing up to do.

Now that im older, almost finished college, not so clueless or innocent and actually turned out to be pretty good looking, i notice these girls have some sort of interest in me. I mean i catch these girls glaring at me across the bar and pretty much begging for my attention or for me to come up and strike some sort of conversation about how times have surely changed but i cant help but feel some sort of reservation, like a grudge almost.

anyways, part of me would like to just keep avoiding them and going on with my life, but my better, more curious side would like to end this grudge, screw them all, and feel like all those years of torment were finally paid for. so how would you go about achieving this goal?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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VladPatton

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Game em and bang em. You may even end up with one of them. Holding a grudge does nothing but may you bitter.
 

Uncharted

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Treat them the same way as any other chick you want to game, except you have an advantage because you're not a total stranger. Who cares about your past concentrate on the present.
 
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