How would you best go about this?

[The Comeback Kid]

This past weekend, I had fun at a "real" college party for the first time in weeks (even if the alcohol supply ended a little early). Sure, I go out every weekend, but finding a good party is really hit-or-miss. Cutting to the chase, I chatted up a HB 7.5 for a few minutes, and left with her number.

This has given me some confidence. I thought I'd be a little rusty, but I accomplished what I set out to do here. I did a good job of initiating a conversation (it was a good sign she remembered my name right away), using some humor along with keeping things light, and eliminating any c*ckblocks that could come along...I actually knew her other girl friend from last year, so I was able to talk to her too. In fact, I was able to talk to the friend while subtly slipping the HB my cell phone and suggesting she put her number in. Since there's always room for improvement, I can come up with a few better conversation topics (ones that use more kino perhaps) that I can initiate on a whim.

Number in hand, the ball's in my court as to what I can do next. Here's how I see it: I only spoke with her for a few minutes and do not know her well enough to actually ask her out. But, I feel I can make something out of this. I plan on contacting her, not to ask her out, but to see if she's going to any parties this coming weekend. If she is, I'd be able to meet up with her there. AND...if her and I don't work out, there are sure to be other girls there. :yes:

The question I have...What day range is good to call OR text her (I got the number this past Saturday) and say hey or whatever? If I wait until Friday to call, it'll look like I'm only using her for parties, and that will never work. However, I don't want to call too soon because she may not be aware of anything YET and it'll look a little over-the-top on my part. Any suggestions?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Heres how i used to do it:

Get the number on the weekend

Text tues or weds while im in class

Make a call or text fri and see what shes up to

Get some action

Its simple...as long as you remember her name.

 

[decadentdestruction]

3 day wait...works I usually call on the third day or text
I usually give them my number too . sometimes they begin the texting and calling , well.. in my case I have had some girls do that .
but anyhow good luck , and tap that ass ...

 

[The Comeback Kid]

haha thanks guys. This is good to know for the future as well because I am pretty good at number-closing at parties, but not so great at kiss-closing at parties.