original_prankster
New Member
yo , dudes, i think i know how i'm going to ask this girl ( whose name i forgot, and hav only talked to like twice b4) to get to know eachother better over lunch. what i'd like to know is, how would you guys ask her?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.