"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How Would This Make Me Look?

amnbyrd

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Alright so a few weeks back I posted about this hb I met at a volunteer event whos beautiful and shares my favorite interest-cars. Well things went well but I didnt number close. Anyways I just ran into her at the chow hall on base. She who was with some guy that a friend of mine says is just her friend. As soon as I walked in she was like "hey its that guy whos always working on his cars." I jumped in with some sarcasm-"yeah its that ****y ******* whos always working on his cars"(thats was her assumption of me was from seeing me around before we met.) I walked up to her and she looked at my name tapes to see what my last name was. I was like whats you're name and looked for her name tapes. I remember her first name though by asking she thought I forgot and she told me her first name. She was like"You're just gonna forget it anyways". Anyways she and her friend had to go back to work though they headed to the post office first. I had to check my mail also though she didnt know I was behind them-she immediately started talking to her guy friend telling him who I was by saying Im the guy whos always working on his cars. I ended up right beside her as her box was near mine. Anyways Im not sure if the guy is her bf or just friends so I wussed out. But I was thinking I could leave her a note on her car. Nothing creepy, I know how to come across as funny. Something along the lines of "Hey its the ****y ******* whos always working on his cars. I wasnt sure when we'd run into each other again (we work different shifts) but we seem to have a lot in common. And btw I didnt forget you're first name-just wanted to see what your last name was. Anyways I couldnt tell if that guy was your bf or not and the last thing I want is to be labeled a disrespectful ****y ******* whos always working on his cars. Anyways hit me up if you wanna get together sometime.
How would this make me come across? Yay or nay? Her immediately talking to me when I walked in today tells me that shes at least been thinking about me though we met like 2-3 weeks ago so Im thinking shes gotta be at least a lil interested.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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it makes you look like you don't know what a f*cking paragraph is.
 

DJVladdy

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OOOh snap! Masturbator just dissed u - whatchu gon do about dat?
 

amnbyrd

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ALright I just got off work and Im tired so I really dont give a f*** about font and puntuation. If you're not gonna give advice why take the time out of your day to post a reply? You're just wasting everyones time
 

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ok well i think that since its already been 2 or 3 weeks if that other guy isnt ALREADY the bf that YOUR times running out quickly.. a note isnt that bad of an idea, although you should change your context up a little bit, i.e. hey its the ****y s.o.b, i haven't seen you since the volunteer event ( try to be non chalant about knowin her shift is dif. from yours ) and was figurin we should get together and learn each others names sometime (somethin along those lines)... dont worry about the bf thing for now if shes single your good with that note , otherwise when she responds youll know your answer..

MJB
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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amnbyrd

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Alright I see what you're sayin. So just write something with some humor/confidence in it and leave my number in it?
how do you think a she'd take it-I mean finding a note on her car written by some guy?
 

king0fhearts59

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well supposedly your not just some guy right? she knows you somewhat and always tries tlaking to you when she sees you so she has some sort of interest in you meaning you should escalate soon..
 
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