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how would I let a HB know I'm interested, without chasing??

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how would I let a HB know I'm interested, without chasing??

for example: If I start talking to a girl I'm interested in, but I want her to know I don't wanna be friends with her, I wanna get her (you know what i mean), but I don't wanna display that in a manner where it looks like I'm chasing her.
 

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The answer is - She will know within 10 seconds of your approach. Trust me she WILL know,and if she doesn't know for sure she will assume that you want her.
You dont have to "send her the message"..in fact doing so is a big mistake made by chumps and guys who think that they need to make their intentions overtly clear..
So what do you need to do ? Do the opposite of what you were raised to do.
This moment is when C & F shines as a 'standout' tactic.
 
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The very fact that you approached her in the first place is showing you are chasing her, in a way. Why hide that? You can't get a girl without at least making your interest known, right? Just make sure you are letting her know that you are qualifying her just like she is you and that you are a man of high standards that has options. That's why I do believe strongly in teasing, light negging and C+F.
 
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****y funny.

Set the frame immediatly. Create sexual tension and a frame that she wants you but cant have you. 'Were you checking me out?', 'No... i dont want to have sex with you'. Or the easiest of all 'i dont usually go for girls that _____...' (can be anything).

After you initially do this, you might need to reframe at some points to keep the conversation or interaction strictly about YOU and HER. This is how you stop from falling into a friendzone and killing the tension.

She might ****-test you to see if you lose your frame, but remain confident and always make the frame about you and her. If you cant think of anything to say to do this, just refer back to lines,

'wow you must really like me', 'stop flirting with me', 'wow keep your hands off me' ( if she touches you) ... etc


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