"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How would I know if this guy is shy or just not interested?

shybunny

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When I wave and say hello to him, he smiles, waves back and says hello. He'll continue walking but he'll glance back a few times.

When I approach him to talk to him, he's always talks back.

He's told me he's passive.

He's agreed to go work on a school assignment together.


The thing I don't understand is, he never initiates conversations.
He never initiates the greetings.
He'll see me in the hallways and pretend he didn't see me, until I say hello, than I "magically appear" and he starts smiling and what not.


(if it matters, I'm 23, going to school for architecture (2 year bachelor's), and he's going to school for architecture (1st year master's), age unknown.)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Deadly_Ripped

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If you're not a passive person, then what's the big deal? Invite him to do something outside of school!

I'm not hating on people looking for dating advice, but this is usually thought of as a men's forum. I'm surprised that you haven't found something similar to this for women out there. The advice you get on here might be a pretty mixed bag of misogynistic tendencies, a desire to manipulate, and honest advice... usually all 3 mixed together as is the case in my post.
 

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OP, when you think of the two of us together, and you find yourself really getting interested in making a connection, and you feel yourself want to open up to me as you think of all the hot things the two of us could do together, just realize that none of those naughty things you're thinking about would be BELOW ME RIGHT NOW;)
 
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