"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How would I know if a check is fake/scam

Kev07

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i made a post on craigslist selling my stuff, a guy offered to buy all of it but he won't do paypal, only send a check via mail. now I know that this sounds like a complete scam, but what could go wrong if i just take the check, and wait for it to see if it goes through whatever before i ship out the goods?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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(a) I've bought/sold stuff by online classified & personal checks this way and it's worked out fine. but that was before Paypal got big.

(b) I've had friends scammed, even using paypal. The bigger the purchase / sale, the more suspicious I get.

(c) there's such a thing as escrow services but they're usually quite pricey.

(d) nothing wrong with your solution so long as the buyer agrees to that. but would he?

howard>> yeh, we usually call em money orders. USPS definitely has 'em. good discussion on the wikipedia, oddly enough: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Money_order
 

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Throttle said:
(a) I've bought/sold stuff by online classified & personal checks this way and it's worked out fine. but that was before Paypal got big.

(b) I've had friends scammed, even using paypal. The bigger the purchase / sale, the more suspicious I get.

(c) there's such a thing as escrow services but they're usually quite pricey.

(d) nothing wrong with your solution so long as the buyer agrees to that. but would he?

howard>> yeh, we usually call em money orders. USPS definitely has 'em. good discussion on the wikipedia, oddly enough: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Money_order
ah that's cool, may be a good idea because it'll clear more quickly than a cheque ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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believe it or not, but money orders and certified checks can bounce too.
 

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yeh...though if you cash a money order at the post office it will apparently either clear or bounce right away (according to the wikipedia article. i've never dealt with them.)
 

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his emails are really suspicious let me post them up
-Dear seller,
I'm potential buyer of all types books and accessories and i saw
in the business directory that you are also prospective seller of
the same.In your favorable reply,i should like you to include your
cataloger and price quotation list,make a categories statement as
regard the system of placing order.I want you to do the estimate of
4 MBA Applications Related Material,am paying with check
do the estimate of the i terms and send me the cost.
Hoping to read from you as soon as possible.
Regard from:*******

-Hi ,you want to buy all of the books?

-thanks for your responds,reply me back for the total amount of the book,and
the full information to send the check,i will be looking forward to hear
from you.

-you don't do paypal? you want all of the books? i'll get back with a price in a few hours, i have work right now

-thanks for your responds,i don't pay through pay pal,pls relpy back to me
about the total amount and the address to send the check right,will be
looking forward to hear from you.
best regard
*******

-i dont have harry potter 6 anymore, but ill give you all of the books for 175+shipping

-thanks for your responds,you can now reply me the address to send you the
check.



note: 175 would be fair, but really leaning towards good gains on my end, i put a higher price to see how he would respond. everything is telling me this is a scam, but can't hurt to see if the check goes through right?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm guessing he's foreign and his responses are translated. Thanks for the responds. Tee hee.
 
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