"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How would Edward Cullen approach and close a girl?

underoath777

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So guys, I've made a loooong journey as far as my development into a man who can approach and attract girls. I've always been a funny guy, and I have a very sarcastic sense of humor, so ****y and funny was very natural for me. After just being myself and using kino, I realize I can attract many girls.

So attraction isn't the problem, it's just that I feel the funny thing is a little too immature.

This leads into the subject, Edward Cullen from Twilight. Now I'm using him as an example because it's relevant to today's pop culture.

After watching the movie, it was obvious why girls liked the character. I have to say, I want to strive to be more like this persona; confident, mysterious, willing to walk away. It's very rare that he even laughs.

My question is, how would Edward Cullen game a girl if he wasn't using ****y and funny? I feel like I can progress more and feel like I need to have a cool, collected, calm, mysterious, mature vibe to myself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Edward Cullen looks like "the crazy neighbor", there's nothing remotly interesting in his character ..you said you saw the movie ..then I presume you noticed his social interactions are ALWAYS awkward and CREEPY, nothing alpha in there.

Another character females seem to like, it exists in the movies ...let's leave it at that.
 

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The first half of the movie is good, the character Bella just falls into his lap. Then the second half is where the conflict comes in and is a little too much to keep my interest.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude its a movie. A fictional character.

But seriously, model after Eric from True Blood instead. I would almost fvck him.
 

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underoath777 said:
The first half of the movie is good, the character Bella just falls into his lap.
Umm...you know the reason "Bella" fell into that guy's lap was because that's the way THE SCRIPT WAS WRITTEN for it to happen,NOT because of anything "DJ" he said or did.

It's the movies. Of course guys get girls without any effort,it's all fantasy and make-believe.

Heck,a toothless,homeless guy can get a "10" on film. Let a homeless man try that in real life and see what happens.


underoath777 said:
Then the second half is where the conflict comes in and is a little too much to keep my interest.
Conflict? Between a man and a woman? Shocking.

At least that part was a case of art imitating real life.
 

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I seriously hope the OP is joking! Twilight? Edward Cullen? Are you effin' serious? PLEASE! LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Listen to 40oztofreedom if you ABSOLUTELY MUST act like one of these vampire characters. Geez!
 

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Guys. You're missing the point here. Edward Cullen is the epitome of man.

He's got girls everywhere swooning, and guess what, its not because of hair product.

Oh and Igetit! I meant the conflict between him and all the other vampires. I'm more interested in getting a girl to fall for me with that cool, confident vampiric persona Edward possesses.

Btw, Jacob Black in no way can even come close.

Team Edward!
 

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underoath777 said:
Guys. You're missing the point here. Edward Cullen is the epitome of man.
He's not real. So of course girls are going to go crazy for the guy, he's a fictional character that has the perfect mix of all the qualities that women love.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good lord. Even you guys are talking about this sh1t? Never seen it...never will. I had to click on the link to see who edward cullen was. Isn't this the crap with the sparkly vampires? Just sparkle at her.
 

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Nice guy always get girls in movies but rarely in real life. Many of the ladies men I know in real life are surprisingly the exact opposite (personality-wise) of the ladies men in movies and tv. I've actually met ladies men who were more similar to Heath Ledger's Joker than they were to Edward Cullen.
 

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Edward: Sup girly? That hunk not your BF is he? Good! Is he seeing anyone? Here's my number, pass it to him, will ya darl? xxoxxx
 

Just a Shot Away

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jnice48146 said:
I seriously hope the OP is joking! Twilight? Edward Cullen? Are you effin' serious? PLEASE! LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Seriously. I can't believe this question is being asked. This is embarrassing, dude. Why do you even know a character's name from a movie designed for 15 year old girls?

If Edward Cullen is the epitome of a man, what does that make James Bond? Leonidas from '300'? Come ON, dude. Get with the program. How does he approach women? He like, comes up and sucks their blood and stuff. I'm not one to tear down other posters because we're all brothers, but seriously dude. This thread is crap.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
Seriously. I can't believe this question is being asked. This is embarrassing, dude. Why do you even know a character's name from a movie designed for 15 year old girls?

If Edward Cullen is the epitome of a man, what does that make James Bond? Leonidas from '300'? Come ON, dude. Get with the program. How does he approach women? He like, comes up and sucks their blood and stuff. I'm not one to tear down other posters because we're all brothers, but seriously dude. This thread is crap.
i agree...just remember that the story was made by woman. enough said.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Edward Cullen is the epitome of an AFC with oneitis, but because its a movie, he ACTUALLY gets the girl. But for all the work he puts in, he only gets a *close? WTF? This is just silly!
 

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Dude, Edward is definately not a character you want to model your personality around.

You should just be yourself.

If Edward was real (I mean the character, I realize an actor plays him), he wouldn't pick up any chicks at all and he'd creep everyone out, which doesn't turn chicks on in the slightest.
 

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jnice48146 said:
But for all the work he puts in, he only gets a *close? WTF? This is just silly!
like omg tell me about it!!!! when i went with my bff on our 4th or 5th time we had SOOOOO much popcorn cuz we were like so worried for edward (even though we're both TOTALLY team jacob) and i even left halfway thru for the snack bar so i could get on the snickers train!! oh well...next stop: my thighs! Whoo, WHOOO!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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