how would don do this?

[jedimindtricks]

so guys, i'm a sophomore and i've got my eyes on this freshman girl that's pretty cute. anyways, she's really good friends with my close friends so would it be cool if they introduced me to her? after that, how could i get to know her better? because it'd be weird if i just started talking to her in the halls one day..she's pretty popular. sounds pretty AFC but yeah.

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

oh man. Look, let me tell you when I found out anything was possible. I was in 8th grade. I was the loser kid with the glasses trying to be cool and starting fights with kids which got me nowhere...well, there was this chick named Desiree. at the time she was the hottest h*ebag in Jr.High. She had a big ol ass, blond hair and she was a cheerleader for the 9th grade...She was basically untouchable. But I would always wonder what if I got to talking to her. Well after a month of being close to openign her I finally did one day..We were walking to our first class and I walked next to her and simply said "hey!" and she looked at me for a second like "whoa who is this?" and I was like "Hows it goin? Whats your name?" and she told em her name and she smiled and man i never felt so good in my life. For once in my life I broke the self limiting belief of popularity and sh*t..and a few days later I number closed her and we hung out during the summer once and from there I knew that i had to change my lifestyle and so started working out, joined the football team and everything opened up for me for about 2 years just because I opened the most desired girl at school. and then when I got to high school I was introduced to a plant called Marijuana and a 3 year voyage of drugs and alcohol ensued.

And dude I got another story about HS and this one girl who was also one of the hottest babes in my grade, she looked so much like barbie the doll that everyone busted on her by calling her such...She was irresistable. I approached her one day and we hit it off. And remember I didnt know these girls whatsoever. And eventually I went out with this girl for a month and then she dumped me because I wanted to get sexual but she wasnt ready supposedly and she dumped me..I was destroyed but then the next year I had another class with her and I was attracted to her friend and this pissed her off and I went back out with her,,and this time did her but then she dumped me again because I wasnt a preppy kid. and then the next year she f*cked me again..and then she ignored me..


ahhhhhh, my point is, f*ck the advice and JUST F*CKING DO IT! you'll be surprised at what is in store for you if you just try.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Having your friends introduce you is lame. Introduce yourself.

 

[Chronix]

Ive found this approach to work nicely, found it here on this site

You : Hey
Her : Hey
You : Whats your name
Her : ______ ______
When you hear her name thats a que for handshake, do the handshake pointing downwards, this is something about staying out of the ljbf zone. And its good early kino.
You : Hey ___ ____ My name is _______
And then go from there

 

[jedimindtricks]

sweet, thanks guys i'll try it whenever i see her

 

[Dogfish]

wsn't the typical woman-handshake with the handpalm open?

 

[jimdugs]

might wanna try wearing the headband.

 

[dannowillbookem]

i always feel akward shaking a chicks hand, feels like i'm closing a merger or applying for a job.

 

[Mission]

You should always handshake and look them in the eye when you do it with a smile on your face. It establishes a physical connection right from the get go. Lets put it this way, when I applied for my new job, I shook hands with all the girls who I was going to be working with (on my first day). The next day I came in and hugged them all, and they all hugged back. The **** works.

--Mission

 

[Skilla_Staz]

If you 'linger' a moment when shaking her hand, it adds a little bit of a 'seductive' element. Not too long though, and don't grab it like its a man. Soft, gentle, yet firm, and linger. Maintain eye contact and smile.

 

[dannowillbookem]

yeah but if i dont grab it like its a man i feel like a fag, reaching out daintily to shake her hand. meh guess i'll experiment and work it out, obviously you guys do it and dont have trouble

 

[Vincent]

Handshakes are very important. You want to seem more sensitive and more like you have skills dealing with women, and when you shake a girls hand you need to shake it how they're expecting and less like you're shaking a guys handshake.

It's subtle things like that that will cue instinctive forms of attraction. Remember it's not what you do, it's how you do it.

 

[Muphaser]

skilla you just joined b, from experience... meeting girls through friends is effective because instantly he feels comfortable around you and youre on common ground... But you got the handshake down pat...

Try tilting your head slightly when you smile