"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How would a girl react to this?

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So I asked my co-worker out to movies but now i'm going to flake on her with another girl, and my co-worker works today what if I were to show up to my work with another girl? How would she react?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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don't let them meet ....

do you like if a girl ditch you and show up with another guy ????

how do you react?
 
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first. you know you are ****ting where you eat by even bothering with coworkers right? then you flake, then bring another girl round? Yah lets just **** up our work environment shall we? Good job sparky.

Who knows how she will react..we don't know her. I'm sure she will probably jump for joy and sing your praises from roof tops.
If she's a decent girl with self respect she will probably do nothing but loose all respect for you and not want anything to do with you. If she's low class expect some drama.

you already know the score before you posted here. read the sig.
 
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