"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How would a Don Juan handle this situation?

Viper

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Yeah, well, I want to know how a Don Juan would handle this very common situation, every time I see a couple passionately kissing in the hallway(Not an empty hallway either, tons of people around) or even see a girl, hugging a guy who could even just be her friend, even when I see a couple holding hands in the hallway I start to get jealous. I don't know why I get jealous, maybe it's my hormones or maybe I'm jealous because I don't have any girls hugging on me or showing me affection like that. But, yeah, how would a Don Juan handle this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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flexion_

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Well this doesn't bother a DJ.

I guess I would start improving yourself in general so that you don't worry as much about what other people think and act.

Jealousy is a self-esteem problem.
 

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Originally posted by flexion_
Well this doesn't bother a DJ.

I guess I would start improving yourself in general so that you don't worry as much about what other people think and act.

Jealousy is a self-esteem problem.
I second this. Nothing to say it won't be you who'll be making out with a hot chick in time to come. Just start laying the groundwork as soon as possible and work on improving yourself.
 

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A DJ never gets jealous. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, which is the mark of an AFC.

Actually, a DJ would be turned off by that behavior, DJ's are not into Public Displays of Affection. In fact they loath it.

You never see a DJ making out in public, that is left for the players and pimps.

DJ are something differant, they are not to be degraded and confused with Players.

James Bond is a DJ, Snoop Dog is a player

Sean Connery is a DJ, Justin Timberlake is a Player

DJ's repect women, they are smooth and savy. They rely on their confidence, not money, not looks, not bling, and not foolish seduction tricks.

Just their presence is commanding of respect. they never ask for it or demand it, they just get it.

Bill Clinton was a DJ

John Wayne Was a DJ

You average NBA or Rap star is a player/baller

DJ's never mention money, never mention anything with monetary worth.

They have a sophisticated kind of style, yet are not elite yuppie idiots.

Well manicured, but not metrosexual.

Think cool calm and collected. Say little with words, and more with actions. Not flashy, loud, and boisterous.

Communicatte with your eyes, and use few words as necessary.

A DJ is the guy at the end of the bar sitting there quietly sipping his scotch, not the guy buying rounds for the bar.

He is the guy that can stroll into a bar at ten minutes till 2 and still leave with a LADY, not a TRAMP, but a LADY.

Women feel safe around a DJ, he never gives them a creepy, or unsafe feeling. A lady will walk down a dark ally in Queens at 3 AM with a DJ she just met 5 minutes ago, and feel safe.

She never questions the alterior motives of a DJ, because in truth DJ's have no alterior motives. They don't expect to get laid, they just do.

DJ's don't hit on women, hey very seldom approach them. Pimps hit on everything in site. They are curious creaturs, and women find them so interesting that they approach them.

If a DJ does initiate contact it is for some other reason, then the lady just so happen to fall for him. Think Bond here, Bond always accidently bumped into a women, he never expressed interest, she chases him


A player hands out busness caards with his name and number, a DJ knows if a women wants him bad enough, she will track him down. A DJ never gives out his number, but yet never refuses a lady. He just simply never gives her the opportunity to ask, and doesnt offer

DJ's don't have catch phrases and use pickup lines. They dont use majic or card tricks.

DJ's are DJ's and that is that
 
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