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How would a Don Juan handle this situation?

Viper

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Yeah, well, I want to know how a Don Juan would handle this very common situation, every time I see a couple passionately kissing in the hallway(Not an empty hallway either, tons of people around) or even see a girl, hugging a guy who could even just be her friend, even when I see a couple holding hands in the hallway I start to get jealous. I don't know why I get jealous, maybe it's my hormones or maybe I'm jealous because I don't have any girls hugging on me or showing me affection like that. But, yeah, how would a Don Juan handle this?
 

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Well this doesn't bother a DJ.

I guess I would start improving yourself in general so that you don't worry as much about what other people think and act.

Jealousy is a self-esteem problem.
 

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Originally posted by flexion_
Well this doesn't bother a DJ.

I guess I would start improving yourself in general so that you don't worry as much about what other people think and act.

Jealousy is a self-esteem problem.
I second this. Nothing to say it won't be you who'll be making out with a hot chick in time to come. Just start laying the groundwork as soon as possible and work on improving yourself.
 

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A DJ never gets jealous. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, which is the mark of an AFC.

Actually, a DJ would be turned off by that behavior, DJ's are not into Public Displays of Affection. In fact they loath it.

You never see a DJ making out in public, that is left for the players and pimps.

DJ are something differant, they are not to be degraded and confused with Players.

James Bond is a DJ, Snoop Dog is a player

Sean Connery is a DJ, Justin Timberlake is a Player

DJ's repect women, they are smooth and savy. They rely on their confidence, not money, not looks, not bling, and not foolish seduction tricks.

Just their presence is commanding of respect. they never ask for it or demand it, they just get it.

Bill Clinton was a DJ

John Wayne Was a DJ

You average NBA or Rap star is a player/baller

DJ's never mention money, never mention anything with monetary worth.

They have a sophisticated kind of style, yet are not elite yuppie idiots.

Well manicured, but not metrosexual.

Think cool calm and collected. Say little with words, and more with actions. Not flashy, loud, and boisterous.

Communicatte with your eyes, and use few words as necessary.

A DJ is the guy at the end of the bar sitting there quietly sipping his scotch, not the guy buying rounds for the bar.

He is the guy that can stroll into a bar at ten minutes till 2 and still leave with a LADY, not a TRAMP, but a LADY.

Women feel safe around a DJ, he never gives them a creepy, or unsafe feeling. A lady will walk down a dark ally in Queens at 3 AM with a DJ she just met 5 minutes ago, and feel safe.

She never questions the alterior motives of a DJ, because in truth DJ's have no alterior motives. They don't expect to get laid, they just do.

DJ's don't hit on women, hey very seldom approach them. Pimps hit on everything in site. They are curious creaturs, and women find them so interesting that they approach them.

If a DJ does initiate contact it is for some other reason, then the lady just so happen to fall for him. Think Bond here, Bond always accidently bumped into a women, he never expressed interest, she chases him


A player hands out busness caards with his name and number, a DJ knows if a women wants him bad enough, she will track him down. A DJ never gives out his number, but yet never refuses a lady. He just simply never gives her the opportunity to ask, and doesnt offer

DJ's don't have catch phrases and use pickup lines. They dont use majic or card tricks.

DJ's are DJ's and that is that
 
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