She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dude, i think this is the one thing that's holding me back. i mean i want to try to become more out going and shiz, and talk to everyone, but i'm not very popular right now, and i'm afraid that i'll come off as one of these annoying kids that ur talking about. can anyone tell me wut the difference is between wut i want to become and the kids that BBX is talking aobut?BBX said:Fukin losers, annoying as fuk. Start talking about sh't no one cares about and are awkward and sh't. How would a dj handel these kids? I mean do they realise how pathetic and annoying they are? I'm going to keep doing what i've been doing, and that is, pretty much neg hitting them so they shut up and go away. I've been such a d1ck lately.
yea, you have to speak without any doubt, you have to master your speech, project yourself somewhat. Keep your sentences to the point and don't say gay sh't. Say what the person wants to hear. Don't out of the blue start talking about some gay ass movie line or some video game, WHO THE FUK CARES. Once you start making jokes no one finds funny, and once you start saying crap no one wants to hear, your one of the annoying kids.Crazy Asian said:dude, i think this is the one thing that's holding me back. i mean i want to try to become more out going and shiz, and talk to everyone, but i'm not very popular right now, and i'm afraid that i'll come off as one of these annoying kids that ur talking about. can anyone tell me wut the difference is between wut i want to become and the kids that BBX is talking aobut?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
strongly disagree, hanging around losers makes you a loserMichele said:ever watched family guy? how meg is the hideous fat girl, right? and how they got her a horribly pimpled out face ugly chick to follow her around to make meg look pretty?
you can use these dorky kids like that... it's mean, yeah... but they'll get the hint... its a win-win situation... both wins for you (they'll make you look good... or they'll leave)
who said to hang out with them?BBX said:strongly disagree, hanging around losers makes you a loser
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.