PlayerinTraining
Senior Don Juan
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The positive power of negative thinking...
If you need any proof that women fail to take responsibility, I'd simply refer you to Ronin's recent post regarding a girl who suggests one thing, does the complete opposite, and expects him to be OK with it:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=41105&perpage=20&pagenumber=3
I call things as I see them. American women have many unattractive qualities. Simply because a male makes the claim does not make it any less true.
I also objected to your claim that I've never had a good relationship with a woman, which has nothing to do with whether my claims are valid or not. It was simply a lame attempt at psychoanalysis, and did nothing to prove or disprove my statements.
It also implicitly reinforces the very cultural premises I'm opposing: 1) that men should judge their worth by what women think of them 2) relationship failures are the failure of MEN.
Your post simply proves another point-- in this culture (American), a man can't get frustrated and annoyed with a chick's clearly unfair behavior without someone judging his "mental health." It is always something wrong with A MAN if his relationships are not successful.
Well, that is just a bunch of BS. Enough newbies come here, all distraught and depressed over their lack of success with women. They all think THEY are doing something wrong.
Once you allow yourself to realize most of your women problems have NOTHING to do with your personal worth as a man, but are simply a reflection of social trends much greater, you can finally rebuild your confidence, knock women of that pedistal, and develop the carefree attitude needed to deal with such "special" creatures.
Well, my negative view of women in general is based on experience, despite my positive experience with my ex. gf.
If you need any proof that women fail to take responsibility, I'd simply refer you to Ronin's recent post regarding a girl who suggests one thing, does the complete opposite, and expects him to be OK with it:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=41105&perpage=20&pagenumber=3
I call things as I see them. American women have many unattractive qualities. Simply because a male makes the claim does not make it any less true.
I also objected to your claim that I've never had a good relationship with a woman, which has nothing to do with whether my claims are valid or not. It was simply a lame attempt at psychoanalysis, and did nothing to prove or disprove my statements.
It also implicitly reinforces the very cultural premises I'm opposing: 1) that men should judge their worth by what women think of them 2) relationship failures are the failure of MEN.
Your post simply proves another point-- in this culture (American), a man can't get frustrated and annoyed with a chick's clearly unfair behavior without someone judging his "mental health." It is always something wrong with A MAN if his relationships are not successful.
Well, that is just a bunch of BS. Enough newbies come here, all distraught and depressed over their lack of success with women. They all think THEY are doing something wrong.
Once you allow yourself to realize most of your women problems have NOTHING to do with your personal worth as a man, but are simply a reflection of social trends much greater, you can finally rebuild your confidence, knock women of that pedistal, and develop the carefree attitude needed to deal with such "special" creatures.
