"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How Women Ask Men Out

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"We're going to get some food." They don't leave immediately. This means they are waiting for you to invite yourself along.

"I want to see (random goofy hollywood movie)." She goes silent. This means she is waiting for you to invite her to see this movie.

Social media post: "I'm at hookup bar get lucky. Is anyone else out?" She is looking to f*** right now.

"Do you wanna go?" Yes, you do.

"I wanna get some sushi." That means she wants to go on a sushi date with you and then have sex right after.

She follows you out of a bar, club, party, any social event.

The point is, women initiate sex and ask men out all the time in a very casual way. Just pay attention.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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