"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How will you raise your daughter?

SamePendo

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Once you have come here, and have opened your mind to other ways of looking a the world that envolve you. Specifically, on how to manage your sexuality in society. How to manage others, specificaly women's, in every day life. You've found ways to boost your manhood, your alpha traits that are natural in you. Not only that, chances are that you allready know how to lie your way into a womans panties in a matter of minutes.

You've probably allready taught some of your friends how to. You've also tried to free them of the so- called matrix, and all that. But what about the day that comes in which you have to, alone or together with your wife, raise a child? I suppose it'd be "easy", to raise a male child of mine, rather than a female.

I suppose I'd just let her be, love her with all my heart, let her be free, and make her know that she has someone who loves her. And when the dating thing comes, be ready to break some kid's car, or the kid himself. Yeah let them play silly games, but we're not stupid, we know when a guy is over his head. :trouble:

How would you raise her? When you have those father-daughter talks, or just, time to talk about random stuff, which is when most lessons are taught, what would your ... ways.. be?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blinkwatt

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SamePendo said:
How would you raise her? When you have those father-daughter talks, or just, time to talk about random stuff, which is when most lessons are taught, what would your ... ways.. be?
I will make sure that my kids know that Iam always there for them,first and foremost. I will also hound any guy that steps foot in the house that she meets ,think of that scene in Bad Boys 2.
 

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Lol...

When I raise my daughter I will simply teach her that most of the men in the world are bad... haha, soudns stupid, but it works for a while. Then when my daugher tells me they are not and she found a good guy, I will say let me see him, are you serious? he is good? Wow! I would then proceed to examine the guy up and down, and make my evaluation of him then and there...

I will also teach my daughter values and to values herself and the way she dresses, dress nice and not to dress showing her legs and boobs.

I dunno, I will be ncie to my daughter and yet very protective without seeming like I am crazy, I will teach and show her things I will pretty much bring my daighter VERY close to me so she knows that I am there for the best of her and not there to just tell her what she needs to do.
 

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I would let her know how important it is to be constantly improving one's self, and that she'll have a much more appealing personality if she does so.

With regards to men, it doesn't really bother me much especially if the guy's an AFC. If anything, I'd be threatening any woman my son brings into the house :D
 

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Ever since I saw Kaley Cuoco on that show "10 Rules for Dating My Teen Daughter", I've always said that if I had a daughter that looked like her I'd have only ONE rule for dating her:

You can have her after I'm done. *ducking*
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I would teach any child I have everything that I know about life. It doesn't matter if I have a son or a daughter, they will both learn the 'game.'

I will try to make sure that my daughter has extremely high standards and doesn't take shyt from anybody. I will lay the game out to her like this pimp did for one of my co-workers that briefly took over the pimp's hoes while he was in prison. I want to raise super kids that know all about strategy, communication, and money. I would love to help them find a purpose in life as soon as possible, because one of the worse things that gifted people face is lack of direction.
 

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I will lay the game out to her like this pimp did for one of my co-workers.
Sounds interesting. What did he say to sum up the game?
 

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I wouldn't break his car or his head, I would just intimidate him so much that he would be impotent around my daughter.

On a more serious not I find the stricter parents are the more kid’s rebel so If you teach morals without being strict you should have a good child.
 

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daughters and sons are very different, however you just have to teach them to be independent and to stand on their own two feet. you teach them right from wrong and you teach them morals. you also teach them how to make their dreams and goals come true. and then you teach them not to throw it away for the first person that says i love you to them or pulls up in the driveway with a harley.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't intend to have children. Financially, they are a terrible investment. Food, clothes, spending money, housing, accomodations, paying for college, the list goes on and on. And what is the rate of return? The planet is sufficiently populated such that I can withhold by contribution to the propogation of the human race without worrying about the species' extinction.
 

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Marlimus said:
I don't intend to have children. Financially, they are a terrible investment. Food, clothes, spending money, housing, accomodations, paying for college, the list goes on and on. And what is the rate of return? The planet is sufficiently populated such that I can withhold by contribution to the propogation of the human race without worrying about the species' extinction.
Another great point, some will argue that having children is part of human nature and everyone should do it or else they will feel they have lead an empty life when they are old. I think they are just blinded by societies illusion and put themselves on the path that society sets out for them.
 

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SamePendo said:
How would you raise her? When you have those father-daughter talks, or just, time to talk about random stuff, which is when most lessons are taught, what would your ... ways.. be?
I'm going to tell her that men are evil and she can never date anybody ever.
 
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