"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how will you parent your daughter and son dating

Heretolearn

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With all that you guys know,

How will you parent your son and daughter dating


especially these issues:

(answer separately for boy and girl if appropriate)

a) when to start dating
b) the sort of person you would allow them to date or anyone
c) the sort of person you would allow them to bring into your home and how would you treat them
d) the age range you would allow
e) Would you leave them alone? At what age


*how would you allow and disallow certain activities.


* I remember when I was dating a girl in high school, her parents and I got along better :) We chat if we ever bump into each other.

When I got my license the dad gave me the keys to the new BMW and said take his daughter out!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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STR8UP

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Considering the fact that I don't even want a GIRLFRIEND for quite awhile, I don't really ponder such issues.
 

ElChoclo

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It won't be long. He gets and will get plenty of advice. Something which I never got.

I expect to see only quality girls. Anything less and he will get severely reprimanded.

Girls his own age only for the foreseeable future. Demi Moore can look elsewhere. No single mothers at any age.

They can be left alone at any age, but it depends on the circumstances doesn't it?

The mind should turn to calculus before it turns to coitus.
 
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