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How/When to ask for exclusivity

Bgarrido

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I've been talking to this girl for about 2 months and the relationship moved pretty quickly... She texted me everyday for about 3 weeks and we talked all day, moved to skyping for hours on weekends and we went out for the first time yesterday to the movies, held hands and she was comfortable when i put my arm around her shoulder and even moved in and put her head on my shoulder for the rest of the movie...

I really like this girl but I'm not sure if I should ask for the exclusiveness or should I wait awhile and wait to see if she asks for it? Also do you guys think it's too soon to ask for it??
 

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NorwegianDJ

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I'd say just kiss her. There's no need to ask for permission.
After you two actually become reasonably sexual, she's gonna wonder why you haven't popped the question. She will ask you eventually, giving you more power in the relationship. This is what I prefer.

If you feel that you dont have the balls to just kiss her, then just ask her; it does remove a lot of the excitement though.
 
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