"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How/When to ask for exclusivity

Bgarrido

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I've been talking to this girl for about 2 months and the relationship moved pretty quickly... She texted me everyday for about 3 weeks and we talked all day, moved to skyping for hours on weekends and we went out for the first time yesterday to the movies, held hands and she was comfortable when i put my arm around her shoulder and even moved in and put her head on my shoulder for the rest of the movie...

I really like this girl but I'm not sure if I should ask for the exclusiveness or should I wait awhile and wait to see if she asks for it? Also do you guys think it's too soon to ask for it??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NorwegianDJ

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I'd say just kiss her. There's no need to ask for permission.
After you two actually become reasonably sexual, she's gonna wonder why you haven't popped the question. She will ask you eventually, giving you more power in the relationship. This is what I prefer.

If you feel that you dont have the balls to just kiss her, then just ask her; it does remove a lot of the excitement though.
 
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