"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How well would this line work on a girl?

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I'm usually not a fan of canned lines, but I was reading on a line by Style about evolution, and me being a huge dorky fan about evolution, it caught my attention. I was thinking of trying it out on a chick that I created some rapport with, although not all the way like he does it. I was looking for something in the lines of:

Start stroking her hair while behind her
Me: This is what I miss the most about not having long hair (my hair is about an inch long), not being able to have someone play in it.

Her: Whatever blabla she wants to input, hopefully she won't push me away immediately hahah.

Me (while still stroking): You have to admit that the feeling is almost overwhelming. I was never able to fully describe it, it is simply smoothing and reassuring. I'd say it appeals more to the animal in us than to our logic and reason. Try to remember when you were a little kid, and you hurt yourself and ran to your parents, that was how they calmed you and stopped you from crying. It's the same with animals. Parents constantly groom their young (or pets their masters) as a sign of affection. By instinct we are attracted to that kind of touch.

Her: Whatever else blabla she wants to input, if she is receptive to it, I will continue with part 2.

Me: Even while mating animals grab and hold the fur of their partners. For example, lions will grab hold of the partner's mane and pull gently on it while they mate, kind of like this

Grab a lock of her hair and pull down a bit (not tug, just pull :D) to reveal her neck a bit and make her face me a bit more and lock eye contact with occasional glimpses to her lips

Me: This appeal to other senses. Right now (while stroking her neck with my other hand) you are in a vulnerable situation, and your subconscious knows it and is in distress. Stroking creates a sense of calm, while pulling subconsciously creates a rush in your whole body, and you can feel it if you pay attention to it.

At this point, if the cues are right, go in for the kiss

Of course I'll be on the lookout for cues and if she is completely closed, I won't go further or I won't try to go in for the kiss, but other than that, I wanted some opinions on it. Call it an experiment if you want.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I truly dont see this as working well. Cut to it... she'll think you're creepy.
 

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Yeah this sounds romance novel dialogue... not likely to pan out the way you want it to.
 

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Ice882 said:
Yeah this sounds romance novel dialogue... not likely to pan out the way you want it to.
aren't most girls crazy about romance novels? That's kind of what I am aiming for here: Appeal to her senses and emotions, while keeping some kino up and escalating it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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brushing her hair out of her eyes as you stare deeply into them = romantic

stroking her hair while talking about how much you like hair stroking = serial killer

seriously dude this sounds like something hannibal lecter would say, but maybe you'll get lucky and find a girl who is into that :p
 

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Try it and tell us how it goes. Different girls like different things!
 

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Kenny Powers said:
brushing her hair out of her eyes as you stare deeply into them = romantic

stroking her hair while talking about how much you like hair stroking = serial killer

seriously dude this sounds like something hannibal lecter would say, but maybe you'll get lucky and find a girl who is into that :p
Hahah I hear ya, I guess the creepy factor would be there, gotta find a way to reduce it a bit
 

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You can reduce the creepy factor all the way by throwing this garbage out with the $10 on sale copies of Twilight that this came from.

Romance is about taking action, not about the things you say. Nothing you can say to a woman can signifigantly turn them on, it can however turn them right off. And what are you going to do when they don't follow your script???

Seriously dude, why not stick to what's been working for you instead of dreaming up new techniques that could land you a restraining order?
 
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