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Visualization is another technique you can use to know exactly what to do and what to say to women and to gain the much needed confidence to pick them up. Visualization is not magic, witchcraft, supernatural, hocus – pocus or anything.
The basis of its effectivity lies in the principle of subconscious autogenic process meaning the subconscious part of your brain is now handling the previously conscious functions of your brain like asking a girl out, talking to her or making her fall in love with you.
What this does, is to remove a substantial processing burden in your conscious brain and place it in the subconscious mind as an “automated motor response” thus making the processes in the conscious part of our brain to run smoother.
You see, our brain is like a computer, it has a processing chip(neocortex), a hard drive(temporal lobe and other auxiliary lobes for long and short term memory or cache), a RAM or random access memory could be related to the total electrical impulses in our brain, and a swap file(the cerebellum). In a computer, a swap file is to address the limitations of RAM. When a computer overloads with too much memory to process in its’ RAM; it uses an extended memory processing system known as a “swap file” (pagefile). Our brain does the same thing but unlike a computer, it can only use this part of our brain through repetition. If an act is repeated frequently then it is dump to the subconscious part of our brain and becomes a habit. This is also the basis of cognitive insight also known as intuition.
My point in telling you all this is to make you realize that you can turn everything into a habit. Nail biting, getting good grades, brushing your teeth and even being successful with women can be turn into a habit. A way of doing this would be to make a date with 1 or more girls everyday for at least 1 year until it becomes a habit. Sooner or later without thinking, women will be madly falling all over you for you. This also helps you to feel lonely as being alone for such a long time has made you numb to feelings of loneliness and this is important as part of your self – growth and healing.
Have you ever wondered why some people always have girls and money while others have none? It is about maintaining a habit of abundance. This is what we refer to as “havingness”. This is the secret to maintaining abundance, prosperity or success to any part of your life. I ounce had a female friend who beg me to stay as a friend to her; I ask her, “Why are you afraid to lose me as a friend? Then she answered because I would feel lonely if I would lose you or even any one of my friends. I ask why and she said because I am used to having lots of friends. To me, losing a single friend is already equivalent to losing a hundred people and I quickly feel lonely. I am used to it. It has been a habit of mine.” From her words, I gained insight.
First, sometimes people are so used to being alone that they no longer feel lonely and fear of feeling lonely can help motivate you to gain more people.
Second, anything can be turned into a habit. Nail biting is a habit, brushing your teeth is a habit, getting good grades can be a habit, masturbation can be a habit and so does having sex with a lot of gorgeous women can be turn into a habit! (Note: It was actually this making dating into a habit advice that taught me how to pick – up women before I even came to know what picking up women meant)
Other benefits of this making dating as a habit include losing fear of women, losing fear of rejection; losing fear of the unknown and losing fear of perceive humiliation. In other words, “losing fear” and fear is the only thing you should fear. Darn it! When I am giving advice here, I feel like I am prep talking to a girl right before a stage play. If I continue all these inspirational prep talk then this entire thread/post will nothing more than a reassurance for Nice Guys/AFC's.
Note: You do not have permission to plagiarize this post.
You do not have permission to put this information in a book.
Stop lurking around in sosuave.com searching for information to sell in your book!
The basis of its effectivity lies in the principle of subconscious autogenic process meaning the subconscious part of your brain is now handling the previously conscious functions of your brain like asking a girl out, talking to her or making her fall in love with you.
What this does, is to remove a substantial processing burden in your conscious brain and place it in the subconscious mind as an “automated motor response” thus making the processes in the conscious part of our brain to run smoother.
You see, our brain is like a computer, it has a processing chip(neocortex), a hard drive(temporal lobe and other auxiliary lobes for long and short term memory or cache), a RAM or random access memory could be related to the total electrical impulses in our brain, and a swap file(the cerebellum). In a computer, a swap file is to address the limitations of RAM. When a computer overloads with too much memory to process in its’ RAM; it uses an extended memory processing system known as a “swap file” (pagefile). Our brain does the same thing but unlike a computer, it can only use this part of our brain through repetition. If an act is repeated frequently then it is dump to the subconscious part of our brain and becomes a habit. This is also the basis of cognitive insight also known as intuition.
My point in telling you all this is to make you realize that you can turn everything into a habit. Nail biting, getting good grades, brushing your teeth and even being successful with women can be turn into a habit. A way of doing this would be to make a date with 1 or more girls everyday for at least 1 year until it becomes a habit. Sooner or later without thinking, women will be madly falling all over you for you. This also helps you to feel lonely as being alone for such a long time has made you numb to feelings of loneliness and this is important as part of your self – growth and healing.
Have you ever wondered why some people always have girls and money while others have none? It is about maintaining a habit of abundance. This is what we refer to as “havingness”. This is the secret to maintaining abundance, prosperity or success to any part of your life. I ounce had a female friend who beg me to stay as a friend to her; I ask her, “Why are you afraid to lose me as a friend? Then she answered because I would feel lonely if I would lose you or even any one of my friends. I ask why and she said because I am used to having lots of friends. To me, losing a single friend is already equivalent to losing a hundred people and I quickly feel lonely. I am used to it. It has been a habit of mine.” From her words, I gained insight.
First, sometimes people are so used to being alone that they no longer feel lonely and fear of feeling lonely can help motivate you to gain more people.
Second, anything can be turned into a habit. Nail biting is a habit, brushing your teeth is a habit, getting good grades can be a habit, masturbation can be a habit and so does having sex with a lot of gorgeous women can be turn into a habit! (Note: It was actually this making dating into a habit advice that taught me how to pick – up women before I even came to know what picking up women meant)
Other benefits of this making dating as a habit include losing fear of women, losing fear of rejection; losing fear of the unknown and losing fear of perceive humiliation. In other words, “losing fear” and fear is the only thing you should fear. Darn it! When I am giving advice here, I feel like I am prep talking to a girl right before a stage play. If I continue all these inspirational prep talk then this entire thread/post will nothing more than a reassurance for Nice Guys/AFC's.
Note: You do not have permission to plagiarize this post.
You do not have permission to put this information in a book.
Stop lurking around in sosuave.com searching for information to sell in your book!