"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How upfront are you?

Yo'Mama

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I was just interested in how many of you lie to get the bang. If you date a girl who is clearly looking for a relationship, when you are just looking to f**k around, do you tell her upfront? Or do you think that anything goes until she asks you to be exclusive?

I think a lot of times girls won't ask you to be exclusive, but once they've slept with you they'll kind of assume it.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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VladPatton

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Over the years I've been open, honest, and said all my intentions. That bullshıt got me nothing. Time to be a covert bastard and get what you want. Everything goes until exclusivity. People that don't wanna play the game are not even considered for 'the game'. Play. Get some results.
 
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