how unfortunate am I!? (depressed!!!)

[djinhell]

Im so down right now...

Had to go out tonight cos it was one of my friend bday celebration....started at her flat. my former oneitis was there aswell as a new girl who ive been interested in...

Basically, my former oneitis is going out with someone younger than me who she works with and who was obsessed with her (she used to refer to him as a creep who repulsed her)...just makes me feel sh!t that ultimately she chose him over me (although a I think it is out of desperation on her part)!!!!!!

Secondly, I went to the bathroom, and when i came back, the new girl I was semi-interested in was talking to the other girls about a guy she works with who shes obsessed with and wants him and only has eyes for him etc etc..

I was up for a good night...but those two elements crushed me LOL

not only that, but when we left the flat, walking through the street I see a girl who I dated a couple of times with a new boyfriend!!!

It just seemed like the gods were conspiring against me tonight!

Im home now, and so grateful to be home...away from all the bullsh!t!!! I just cant be ****ed with competing with other guys...It just seems girls are never into me...Im always into them, and end up crushed. :cuss:

rant over

Dj In Hell

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

I am sorry that you're down right now. Take solace in knowing it will pass. Keep remembering, it's THEIR loss, not yours!

 

[Caveman]

I remember feeling like that every once in a while. Everyone has an off day sometimes. I can also imagine, a feeling like this can linger for an extended time. Just remember that, relationships come and go. Everyone is shopping around in this big meat market.
I don't know your age but I'm assuming you're still kinda young. At young age, people are destined to hop from one relationship to another. Everyone wants to see what is out there.

Imagine girls going shopping. They found an awesome dress, they try it on, they love it. Feels like it's made for her. But.. what's that? There's another dress. That would go great with her shoes. She HAS to try it on.

Sorry for the somewhat screwed up comparison but I hope you get the idea. In case you didn't understand: You may have been that perfect dress. She might come to realise later that you were better for her than the obsessed creep she is with now. Or maybe not. Bottomline is: you should shop around too. Apparantly this girl was not your perfect match. So was the other ex you've seen. Or the other girl you were interested in. They are just 3 girls in a world with millions of girls. Forget about all of them and set your mind to meeting all of these other girls. As many as you can. You are gonna be the one to judge wheather or not they make your perfect fit. You are gonna be the one that needs to see if the next girl can make your boat float. And keep it floating.

Like plaYtHiNg said: It's their loss, not yours. Keep working on yourself to achieve what you want to achieve. Keep improving yourself until you are fully content with who you are and you know you will get that girl that appreciates you for who you are because YOU appreciate who you are.

 

[djinhell]

Thanks for the kind words caveman and plaything.

Having slept on the situation, I dont feel as bad anymore.

Time to chin up! :rockon: