How to you guys propose anal sex?

[STR8UP]

The thing about women and anal sex is that there are a few things going on psychologically that you have to get around.

For some it's the taboo aspect

Some think it's just nasty.

Some are worried about the pain.

Some look at it as "another form of virginity" or a "treat" that they want to save for their husbands or for someone they are "in love with".

I haven't had much luck trying to talk women into it. My ex was 100lb 5'0 asian who initially expressed that she would never do it. Then it was "I'm saving it for my husband". Finally, after I broke up with her and I was still fukking her, one night she says "I want you to do whatever you want to me".

It was pretty painful for her since she was so small, but she took it like a champ, even admitting that it "wasn't so bad" after the fact.

Another hot latina I dated came HARD when I would finger her ass. She would even try to push her ass hole against my d!ck when I was doing her doggy. I never did actually fukk her up the ass though. And I don't know why. That was pretty dumb. I was with her for a year!

 

[PRMoon]

When you meet the right "girl" she'll propose anal sex to you. Or she'll scream it if you're hitting it right and you know how to talk to them during standard intercourse.

Suggesting it to a girl who has never had it before. That's the tough issue. For some girls no really means no but there's a fair amount who are willing to ease into it... pun intended I think.

 

[romangod]

How to you guys propose anal sex?



Usually, I show her the ring while asking:


"I would be honored if you'd agree to let me fvck you up the a$$?"


Cheers!

 

[02hero]

Firstly don't get obsessed over it, it's vastly overrated anyway.

If a girl wants it believe me she will let you know. If you want to introduce it try putting a finger up there or rub your **** around her arse hole and see how she responds. If she seems to enjoy it and doesn't flinch well you're probably in business...

 

[Bible_Belt]

How to you guys propose anal sex?

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[bigjohnson]

I actually did a more precise tally and the best I can figure 40% eventually ASKED for it, so ya, chicks dig it sometimes.

 

[steve38]

LOL when girls say they are saving their butt for 'someone special'. Sure, that sweet golden threshold of human life is free game for every Tom, **** and Harry. But the dark, murky orifice where her feces is expelled...that is special!

Last girl I did in the butt, I proposed it this way. I was ordering food for us and got a Caesar Salad for her. She asked why I did that, and I said because I thought she didn't want the Greek (with a wink). "Well it depends on who is ordering me the Greek," she countered. I took that as a green light and the next time I did her doggy I just pulled out and put it in her butt. But I guess it depends on the girl. She was kind of skanky.

 

[ready123]

I'm one of those guys who never understood the appeal of sticking your cck up a girl's asshle. I'm pretty sure I'm in the minority though

But another way to make it happen is after she's comfortable with you and you've been boning her good a few times, you reframe hooking up as expanding her sexual horizons from an experimental POV. This works only if she's enjoying the sex so learn how to please the girl. This is also how you get girls who never gave a ******* or don't know how to give *******s to be willing to do it or learn

Anyway, reminds me of a story. I was in Tijuana two summers ago and one guy in our group wanted to bone one of the strippers in the ass. I was the only one who could speak spanish so I had to ask her in spanish, my friend wants to fvck you in the ass. She told me to tell my friend that only fags like to fvck in the ass

 

[tony-montana]

it amazes me how many people are into this sh!t. gross.

 

[facadegeniality]

it amazes me how many people are into this sh!t. gross.d

it's like saying why so many people are gay.
some things just dun float your boat.

 

[tony-montana]

First - anatomy. At the lower end of the bowel, there are two distinct circular bands of muscles, sphincters, one is located about an 1 ½" above the other. These clamp down tight to prevent the passage of feces or gas. The mucous membrane lining of the rectum is not as heavy as the lining of the vagina, so it can tear quite easily and it does not heal as quickly as the vagina. Because feces, loaded with bacteria, are passing by, any tear is vulnerable to infection.

The vigorous thrusting that may occur during anal intercourse can tear the mucous membrane. This can develop into an anal abscess that can become infected - more about that in a moment. Also, if your partner has any of the sexually transmitted infections (STI's), then you could get infected through the tear. So we are talking about gonorrhea (treatable); venereal warts (treatable if external, difficult if up in the rectum); syphilis (treatable); herpes (treatment, no cure); yeast infection (treatable); and HIV and AIDS (treatment but no cure.) You do not want any of these STI's.

But wait, there's more bad news. A “fissure” is a tear up in the rectum can develop into a crack, and become infected.

It can gradually extend out through the wall of the bowel and form a channel across, through and into a nearby organ. That's called a "fistula", and it would allow feces to flow from the rectum into the vagina and out.

Repairing tears, fissures and fistulas is delicate surgery and recovery can be long and painful.

Some doctors will tell you that hemorrhoids (piles) could result from vigorous anal sex, and although I have no medical research, I have heard people say that the rectum "gets sloppy", stretched. I am dubious - if this was true, why doesn't it get sloppy with regular bowel movements? With no definitive research, you do the math.

The best prevention is "don't go there".

 

[kdnash82]

for most girls, you have to ease them into it

When your girl is riding you on top, finger her butthole as shes riding you. Most girls will love that. You need to get them used to anal stimulation.

Then you can move onto actual anal sex when you feel they are ready. Remember to use lots of lube to make it comfortable for her.

This is the method I've always used. It's tried and true. Crap actually works. Now, I'm personally not a fan of the hershey highway, but I'm always curious to know how far I an press a girl who I've just met, so I always use this test just to find out.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I do like pvssy better, but a chick's ass is a nice place to cvm. The thing about a chick's ass is that after you fvck it for more than a few minutes, it stretches out enough so that her pvssy is actually tighter. A pvssy will do the opposite, and tighten as you fvck her and make her cvm more.

Women have giant orgasms from playing with themselves while getting it up the ass. The "assgasm" is addictive, and once you turn a girl onto anal, she will be asking for it all the time.