How to work around not having many relationships

[El Don]

I have been seeing some progress with women recently but I have a lot of work to do. I have never had any kind of serious relationship. I have probably had only 2 real GFs and even then it wasn't serious because it lasted probably no more than 2 months either.

I'm afraid that as I get older it won't look good if I don't have much relationship experience. I was wondering how I can work around it or make it sound like its no big deal. I understand I should try and get some experience but honestly I just don't want to get involved with someone I don't feel won't work out. Any help would be appreciated.

 

[El Don]

I'm wondering the same thing. I've never had a girlfriend, so I wouldn't really know how to act or anything, I don't really know what's considered "normal".

I just wouldn't want them to be turned off or not want to take anything further knowing I hardly have any experience at all.

 

[Captain]

I'm afraid that as I get older it won't look good if I don't have much relationship experience. I was wondering how I can work around it or make it sound like its no big deal.

Just don't act like it's a big deal. You don't need to tell her about your past. You can lie if you want. Tell her you've dated plenty of women. If you've got decent game, and you act like it's not a big deal, she'll believe you.

I understand I should try and get some experience but honestly I just don't want to get involved with someone I don't feel won't work out. Any help would be appreciated.

Don't try to get into a relationship. Trying to get into one will make you fail. You need to attract women and let things go from there.

I'm wondering the same thing. I've never had a girlfriend, so I wouldn't really know how to act or anything, I don't really know what's considered "normal".

You do exactly the same things as you did at first to attract her. Most men make the mistake of trying to do something different once they get into a relationship. You keep doing what works.

I just wouldn't want them to be turned off or not want to take anything further knowing I hardly have any experience at all.

Don't tell her you're inexperienced. Don't tell her you've only be in 2 relatioships, just tell her you've date women. No need to go into detail. Make her wonder.

 

[oakraiderz2]

It doesnt matter. Ive had two girlfriends (the second one is my current girl) and i dont have a problem. I had a lot of experience with girls but only wanted ass and didnt want to be tied down. Its all in your head man.