"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to win with woman and life in general

TheGambino

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I'm winning, winning, winning and winning the last three months.

I've learned so much on this forum, my nephew and experience in life the last 4 years.

This forum is PLATINUM.

You guys didn't hear much from me because everything is going so well.

I've got at least a couple of dates every week and a plate that sends me nudes, calls me and snapchats me that she wants it. Seeing her for a couple of weeks now.

Next to that I attract lots of women in the clubs every time I go out. Ive got a talent for dancing and the key next to that is to have FUN. Lead and MAKE A DAMN F8KCING MOVE. Grab her hand, dance, isolate, make out, just f8cking do it. Always smile, make a party, tease the ladies and I'm lucky that other girls approach me while im grinding another one which makes the other one work even harder.

On top of that my last plate I almost developed oneitis for sees everything on snapchat and runs intoo me when Im with a girl.

Next to all this im going to sit with my millionaire boss to buy myself in the business, im dropping out of school. Hes starting a new business and im buying myself in for 20-30%. How?

I sell most after only 8 months in this business. Sales is something else but they respect me for being smart, honest and doing my 1000% best to be the best employer ever.

Im going to reach the stars, see you guys there?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheGambino

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Gonna be following your example soon. Not hopefully, but for sure.
It's going to be a rough road with falling and getting up, falling and getting up but you'll reach your dreams if you work hard for it.

For the ladies.

*Be direct
*Make a move
*Have fun
*Lead
*Don't be desperate
*If she texts you im busy or I can't or whatever that you don't like just answer with Ok nevermind then (be indiferrent) only works if you build rapport/comfort
*Tease her
*Be SEXUAL (don't overdo it)
*Smell her neck and tell her she smells good
*Be interested
*Be c8cky/funny
*GRAB WHAT THE F8CK YOU WANT, JUST GRAB. If she likes you she will go along with it otherwise you withdraw attention and go for another one
 

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Great work. Keep aiming high.

Your ladies list is more complex than it needs to be. Should be like this:

For the ladies:
*Have game
*Be high value
*Don't be desperate (if you are high value you wont be)

That's really it.
 

wifehunter

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This stuff should come naturally, once any sufficient deprogramming takes place.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is my mojo:

I do what makes ME happy. The right woman/women will be happy to work right into that without trying to change me.

I have my hobbies (golf, boating, fishing, the gym, hunting, my business and most importantly, my daughter).

Those that require any major changes for them to stick around are immediately replaced.

Period.
 
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