Long time reader, first time poster. I finally decided to register to this site. I found this site during the summer and I still consider myself a mild AFC. I made it a goal to achieve "DJism" in the new year. Now that my introduction is done, lets get to the topic .Well, I recently purchased a book called "How To Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie (thats where I got my screen name from if you haven't noticed). I am about half way through the book (Part III Ch 4, to the people who have read it). As I read, I could get a sense of how human relations happened but there are some parts that seem to be "afc" in the book thus far. Parts such as admiting the person is right when he is logically wrong and just going along with him/her when you are actually right because it would make them "feel" bad when you critize them, even if they are wrong. Reading from this site I always thought a DJ is confident about himself that even if he is wrong, he sticks it out and argues for his right. But in this book it tells us to avoid argument even if the person is wrong and believes in himself that he is right, that we should just let it go...Should I continue reading this book? Some parts seem afc and I want to get as far as away from that as possible.
Well any feedback would be nice, and nice to meet all of you.
Well any feedback would be nice, and nice to meet all of you.