"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to wake up in the morning - 100% guaranteed to work

Mr. Wolf

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This is a simple way I wake up in the morning, it works well for me..


Alarm goes off, and you get up to turn it off. Right after that you get an urge to say to hell with my work out, I'll skip today, I want to sleep some more... Right at that time, say to yourself I'm not going to cuddle, I can do that some other time..


As you say cuddle, associate it with going to bed, cuddling a pillow and sleeping.. That wonderful feeling you crave so badly.. ...I can do that some other time..


That is enough to not want to go back to bed..


This works for me if I sleep 8 hours or just 5 hours, it always works..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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insidious

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Ha, I guess whatever it takes Mr.

I think discipline is the thing, and that involves voluntarily experiencing discomfort for the long-term benefits of something. I get out of bed cause I know I have to and I don't feed myself BS about why or how....I just do.

Sucks sometimes, especially now when it's like 40 degrees in the morning. Leaving the warm blankets at 5:30am to go prop a couple hundred lbs of iron on my body is a feat of self-abuse! :D
 

mrRuckus

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I'm not much for the "trick yourself" stuff or any other psych nonsense. You just get up since you decided yesterday you should get up at that time. How are you going to do a 20 rep squat if you can't even will yourself out of bed? Weeeak.
 

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For $5 at a hardware or home improvement store you can buy a security timer that's designed to turn lights on and off to make potential burglars think you're home. Buy two of these and plug them into two lamps in your room.

I have a halogen lamp and a fluorescent lamp timed to go off 15 minutes apart, starting 30 min before I want to wake up. Both lamps are close to the window to somewhat appear that the source of the light is from outside, and when the alarm goes off the room is lit, though not so harshly that I want to hide from the light.

It's not perfect, but it's a cheap and easy way to both convince myself that the day is starting and make that tired moment of getting out of bed as painless as possible.

If you really want to take this idea to the next level there are solutions out there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SickAgain

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Here's a better one I use. When I wake up to turn off the alarm, when I turn it off, I turn on the light. I might be dozing off for another 5 minutes, but I can't sleep with the light on. The psycho-physiological responses in your body with will wake you up from the response from light.
 

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roll out of bed, do 50 pushups, and take an ice cold shower. I don't do it often, but it's always worked :D
 
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