"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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B-Lemond

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Step 1: www.sosuave.net

Step 2: Look at the top right hand of your screen. What do you see? Right. 'The DJ Bible'. Click on 'The DJ Bible'.

Step 3: Read 'The DJ Bible'

Step 4: Go out and apply the knowledge you just learned.

Step 5: Repeat Steps 1-4 until you have finished reading and applying the knowledge from 'The DJ Bible'.

Step 6: At this point you should have enough knowledge to be out there (in the field) with confidence by yourself. Now you start learning new things. Experiment. Experiment. Experiment. Learn new information through your attempts and observations.

Step 7: If you want to share you knowledge post it.
If you have a question do a search beforehand. IF your answer is not found, make a new thread.

Your question will most likely be answered by KBDJ who (if you have read 'The DJ Bible', will not know anything you don't know.) Everyone once in a while a DJ comes along and answers your post. But this DJ is not busy roaming around the forum. Instead he is busy roaming around the field. Observing. Experimenting. Learning.

Step 8: By now you should be very knowledgeable and you are now one of those DJs that come along every so often to answer, help, or discuss with a fellow DJ.

Step 9: If you are still hungry for knowledge, you may go to www.fastseduction.com.
Learning pick-up is only a part of a DJ. You may use these same principles to help you learn how to become a PUA.



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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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