"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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B-Lemond

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Step 1: www.sosuave.net

Step 2: Look at the top right hand of your screen. What do you see? Right. 'The DJ Bible'. Click on 'The DJ Bible'.

Step 3: Read 'The DJ Bible'

Step 4: Go out and apply the knowledge you just learned.

Step 5: Repeat Steps 1-4 until you have finished reading and applying the knowledge from 'The DJ Bible'.

Step 6: At this point you should have enough knowledge to be out there (in the field) with confidence by yourself. Now you start learning new things. Experiment. Experiment. Experiment. Learn new information through your attempts and observations.

Step 7: If you want to share you knowledge post it.
If you have a question do a search beforehand. IF your answer is not found, make a new thread.

Your question will most likely be answered by KBDJ who (if you have read 'The DJ Bible', will not know anything you don't know.) Everyone once in a while a DJ comes along and answers your post. But this DJ is not busy roaming around the forum. Instead he is busy roaming around the field. Observing. Experimenting. Learning.

Step 8: By now you should be very knowledgeable and you are now one of those DJs that come along every so often to answer, help, or discuss with a fellow DJ.

Step 9: If you are still hungry for knowledge, you may go to www.fastseduction.com.
Learning pick-up is only a part of a DJ. You may use these same principles to help you learn how to become a PUA.



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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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