how to use patterns to overcome c0ckbl0ckers???

[much2learn]

Ok, here’s my situation:

In slightly less than a month, I will have the perfect opportunity for my first serious attempt at practicing SS. The girl is a friend of mine I’ve known for about 2 years; however our contact with each other has been limited (as in almost non-existent) during that time because we live in 2 different cities located far away from each other.

But there is a problem. Myself and several of my friends went on a safari earlier this year, and this girl was in the group. Things were going very well between us – lots of kino, teasing, even a little play-fighting. A little more time and I could have raised her IL greater than mine. After we got back to the US, a married couple that is a mutual acquaintance started talking a lot of trash about me to her, twisting things that I did or said and trying to convince her that I basically am the devil incarnate. I can’t know for sure how much damage has been done, but most definitely there has been some.

What I really need to find out is if there are any patterns useful for overcoming a c0ckbl0ck of this magnitude. How would you experienced SSers approach her to disarm her? Also, do you think it would be wise to attempt to individually address each of the accusations made against me? Or would that make me appear to be too much on the defensive.

I am 100% confident I can play the game well enough to get this girl if I can just overcome the trash that has been said about me.

[As a side note, if someone could forward this to xblitz44x, I’d be interested in hearing his thoughts as well (I don’t know if he frequents this forum anymore, and I don’t have his email.)]

 

[SexPDX]

The fact that this situation revolves around a particular girl, involves things that were said that we don't know what they are, and that we don't know how you are framed in this girls mind to begin much less how what these people said (whatever that was) would change that from her perspective makes this situation just about impossible to advise you on. Whatever you do don't be forthcomingly defensive about whatever it was.

Also, if this is the girl you were saying you have a "perfect opportunity" to try SS on earlier, I have some oneitis concerns here. You want the focus here to be on practicing your skills, not getting a particular girl. If the focus really were about practicing your skills you would be busy doing that already and you would have recognized that posting for advice on this UPCOMING situation isn't really going to help you much.

You've read the material, just do your thing and don't attatch ANYTHING to the outcome in your mind.

With regards to xblitz44x, I will mention it to him if I see him online sometime soon. I talk to him often enough to know he's pretty busy. Even though he may be too nice to tell you so, I dicourage contacting him privately primarily because when he starts posting again regularly that sort of thing would take away from time he has for the rest of the group. Your questions are not advanced enough to require his attention YET.

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[This message has been edited by SexPDX (edited 12-05-2002).]