"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to use observational learning in seduction

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Another trick in getting women would be the psychological principle of observational learning or also known as social cognitive learning.

Monkey see, monkey do.

We tend to assimilate success the same way we assimilate information. Make a conscious effort to stop non – real interactivity like watching T.V. or playing solo computer games because we have a tendency to assimilate wrong information quickly. We can copy the success of other people just by actually seeing or hearing it from someone else or in this case from reading about other people success. The successes and even mistakes can be assimilated subconsciously.

This is also why it is important to read Romance. Novels because the story can be assimilated in your mind and you will actually be living out the stories of the books you’ve read without actually realizing that you are re-enacting them. It is a concept called “Characterization”.

Another example is by listening to the success stories of other players, there are other examples but you get the idea of what I am trying to say, don’t you?
My older sister said that if I actually wanted to be good at English then I don’t actually need to read how to speak English, I just need to read lots and lots of English books because I would assimilate the way the writers write; their grammar, spelling and style would be assimilated into my mind subconsciously.
My sister gave me more than just a way to learn English! She accidentally gave me an idea that anything can be assimilated into the mind subconsciously including success stories in how to seduce women.

Observational learning is also called social cognitive learning.
Observational learning is also the basis for "Social Proof"

Now you know.


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Please do not plagiarize my ideas for financial interest!
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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