"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I recently bought a book from style called the game where it talks about "neg-hits". I have searched the archives and found some stuff on neg's but I want to ask people of their personal experience. Now do Neg's really work or is it just Bull****?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Negs definately work, but only on HB8 and aboves.

HB8+ women are used to AFCs going up to them all the time and complementing them. Hence, they have pre-programmed responses and instantly write them off.

By negging them, you trigger something in their pretty little heads, and you grab their attention and make them intrigued.

Always be sure to follow negs with a compliment, but keep them guessing.

One I used last night:

me: "hey! you have a dimple on your chin when you smile! reminds me of Kurt Douglas!" and then i actually poked her chin with my index finger.
her: HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!
(b1tch shield broken)
me: but its cute though,
her: BIG grin on her face "what your name?"

.... and off i went into a routine.

Negging HB7s and below is risky. I wouldnt recommend it, just go in with the ****y/funny routines.

Neg away my man!
 
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Thanks for the advice fash. I look foward to getting more replies.
 
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There's about a billion posts on Neg hits. Search.
 
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