How to use my persona to my advantage?

[mccj]

I am considered an all around great person: respectful, caring, mature beyond my years (16 of them), intelligent, and witty. I am a good guitar player , play in bands, and am the political star of my school. I am the vice-president at a school that takes its government seriously which prefers the cool, and collected to the nerdy. I often take precedence over the president due to my image as a competent governor. I like to compare myself to a young Jack Kennedy, because we share a first name, share an Irish American Heritage, and share a political vision.

Jack Kennedy was always revered as successful and attractive. Now I know he could be a dog sometimes, but what made him and many others like him so damn appealing to women? I'm not gonna be the football star, or the most muscular ripped guy, but I have my niche. I'm 5'11, with blonde hair and hazel eyes, and I don't think I'm too bad looking at all. .

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So how do I go from, "Oh Jack, he's awesome. I love him." to "Oh Jack, I love him. He's suave, he's hot.

 

[jeffthechef]

here's the thing..in my mind
your image isn't something that you can force on people...it's simply perceived as you are...simplest thing... be an alpha

if you are the ultimate prize..it doesn't matter if you have the nicest clothes, biggest muscles, highest iq...she'll go for you

remember...we're all mirror images of each other...for example...i sit next to this girl in band..hb 8.8 popular and everything...i talk to her not really paying much attention...my eyes wandering around the front of the room...then while she's speaking i turn to look at her..and i smile directly making good eye contact....she starts to laugh and kino....GIRLS LIKE SURPRISES....she'll imitate your actions...you smile she smiles..you're boring..she's boring....PLUS WE'RE ALL INTERCONNECTED...if you don't believe me..ask a question and i'll answer

IN CONCLUSION...they're perception of you is simply a reflection unto themselves..if they're insecure about they're looks then they'll be critical of yours...if they have self-confidence they can see it in you..if you have it

 

[Relationship-Buddy]

You are not an ugly person - so that's good news.

Concerning your personality, you just need to remember 2 things:

Be outgoing.
Be confident.


Good Luck!