How to use girl's ridiculous dating standards to your advantage

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Yes, a girl has way more options and guys sending hitting on her, but remember that 99% of men are completely invisible to a woman. For example, if a girl only wants a guy that looks like Michael B. Jordan, 6ft tall, in shape, and has a golden doodle, rich but humble personality but drives a BMW and lives in a hot part of town, Tupac personality, and etc then she will eliminate every guy that doesn't meet those qualifications. Of course, this guy doesn't exist but if she sees a guy that looks similar, drives a Mercedes, dad bod, and a degree with some tattoos then she will give him a chance.

Now here's a how a girl allocates these men that she is interested in.

High Interest- If a girl is talking to this guy then she's not single or if the guy is playing her then she will go hot and cold a lot. A girl will not be seeking attention from other dudes with Mr. High Interest is in her life

Medium Interest- Mr. High Interest is becoming boring and now it is time to start thinking of replacing him if he doesn't get his **** straightened. If she's not dating this dude expect to see her start testing the waters on dating apps. You can only be demoted to medium interest not go from low interest to medium interest fyi.

Low Interest/Narcissist Minor Leagues- This is a revolving roster of multiple men that met one or more qualifications for who she is looking for. It can be any number of guys, but the lower you are on the list the more **** tests, flakes, and etc you will get. The girl's goal is to weed out the other guys so she can promote maybe #1 or 2# to Mr. High Interest. Her goal is to make you become needy, fail **** tests, and etc so she can eliminate you. How do you win? You can either A) participate and hope you win or B) Trust your value and LEAVE.. Just like your job wants to start talking about raises or promotions when you are about to leave them, a girl will do the same thing. If this girl is being ridiculous(99% of them are) then she will bump you to the top if she knows she might lose you prematurely. It's a win win scenario because you either A) get the girl to submit or B) you leave a losing battle anyway. This only works if you are medium to high on the roster. If you are low on the roster then she will not give **** if you leave lol. ALSO, I'm not talking about scenarios where you are getting cheated on or abused. This applies to childish games women play such as flaking, taking days to respond, blue balling, mixed signals, and etc.

 

[EyeBRollin]

This is accurate. The goal is to only invest in women which you are on their “high interest” radar. You just won’t make much progress otherwise.

Women are extremely choosey. There is a huge difference between being that high interest guy vs. every other guy. She will flake on plans immediately to make room for the high interest guy.