"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to use a time constraint when sarging alone ?

a difficult guy

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more specifically, what time constraint can you use when opening ?

you just entered the bar, as the alpha male you are, everybody notices you, all peacocked.it's unlikely that you can say: "hey I need a quick opinion on something but hey, I got to go pretty soon, yeah, even if I just came in".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AudiTy

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"I've gotta get over to my friends, so I only have a minute"

Even if you have no friends, you're so Alpha you can just walk up
to the next set and pretend they're your friends. It's not likely people
will notice too much that you don't know them.

-AudiTy =o
 

INXS

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Or just say "I gotta get going"

For all these people know, you could have just stopped in on your way before something big.

But seriously, who cares what other people think? Do you think James Bond or Bruce Wayne can what the people around think of them when they walk in? NO WAY. So why should you?

You are looking for a difference, the biggest difference you can make is by being indifferent. Don't be so attached to any one outcome. This gives all your power away. Just let whatever happen. Be indifferent.
 
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