"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to unplug my friend?!

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Some background info, I am 17 and my friend is 18, I learnt about game when my brother brought me 'The game' for christmas a couple years ago. Anyway, I've tried a couple times to introduce my friend to some game websites such as PUA shark's site, but he just rejected saying 'this guys just a jerk'. Anyways, he has recently started to get intimate with his extreme oneitis (I'm talking 3-4 years) after wanting her for years. However i can clearly see that he is getting played, she has little to no attachment to him, yet he is completely obsessed and I instantly recognise that the power in the relationship is massively in her favor and the relationship will probably be broken off by her soon.

So my question is, what should i do? To be fair to him it took me a harsh breakup with my oneitis to cause me to take the red pill, but what if he turns suicidal or breaks down? Some advice would be great.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hand him the 'pill' he has to be willing to swallow it otherwise there is nothing you can do except lead by example.... and hope he follows.
 
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Just don't do anything. Let the girl dump him let him cry and beg her to take him back and when she would crush his soul then give him the forum's link.

Necessity is the mother of all inventions and Heartbreak is the mother of Red Pill.

Let him figure it out on his own till then allow him to enjoy the too good to be true fairytale.
 
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Wow thankyou for the quick responses.

I'm going to wait till this girl shatters his heart and then im going to go 'hey man take a look at this' and send him a link to 15 lessons by pook. I think its a good introduction and the writing style is light and fun.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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God dammit when did we all become such pvssies? Like seriously, suicidal over one girl? Fvck her. I have a lot more potential in my life and I know that too! I refuse to believe anyone who tries to make me feel otherwise. Like this girl for example.

Suicidal over a girl??? Baah! So what. Men don't get emotional over lovey-dovey sh!t, that's the woman's job! Men don't cry! Men don't go head over heels for a girl, they take care of themselves first BEFORE ANYONE ELSE so they don't have TIME to care!

This guy is NOT tough or strong at all. The man NEEDS to be strong. The man NEEDS to be tough. The man NEEDS to be able to withstand pain without letting it hurt/affect him. Pfffft. I'm disappointed in these kind of guys.

No matter, he will harden up as soon as he gets hurt. He will NEED to adapt. He will learn soon, very soon, whether he likes it or not.
 
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What business is it of yours in the first place?

You gave him the book. He dismissed it.

Experience will teach him in time.

Meanwhile, mind your own business
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I second this.

"The master will appear when the student is ready."
 
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Tryin to explain the redpill to people who don't want to listen is like trying to convince an atheist to read the Bible.

You will never get anywhere unless they are willing. And when they aren't willing, all you do is look like a complete @$$hole trying to preach the literature you find here.

Frustrating, I know. Can't save em if they don't want to be.
 
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